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Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.

Holiday Celebrations and Food Choices December 20, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati discuss the challenges of maintaining healthy habits during the holiday season. They explore the differences in dietary habits between Italians in Italy and those in America, particularly regarding carbohydrate consumption. The conversation delves into the cultural aspects of celebration, the importance of mindful eating, and strategies to enjoy festivities without overindulging. Listeners are encouraged to be aware of their food choices, especially regarding wheat products, and to celebrate with intention, whether alone or with others. The episode offers practical tips for navigating holiday parties and maintaining a balanced approach to food and festivities.

Shame and Addiction August 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Roberta Maria Ati explore the complex emotions surrounding shame, particularly in the context of societal tragedies like Hurricane Katrina. They differentiate between legitimate and toxic shame, discussing how the latter can lead to suffering and addiction. The conversation delves into the psychological effects of witnessing disaster and the feelings of powerlessness that arise from inaction. They also critique the inadequate responses from authorities in the aftermath of such events and emphasize the importance of addressing emotional pain rather than numbing it. The episode highlights the need for deeper understanding and compassion in the face of collective trauma.

Touch and Its Importance June 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Neil Shatka, Jean Liedloff, Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the critical role of touch in human development and communication. They discuss the historical context of touch, its significance in various cultures, and the psychological implications of touch deprivation. The hosts highlight research indicating that touch is essential for emotional and physical health, particularly in infants. They also address societal taboos surrounding touch, especially between genders, and the consequences of these prohibitions. The conversation delves into how touch can heal, comfort, and connect individuals, emphasizing its importance in fostering relationships and well-being.

Happiness and the Brain March 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of happiness, exploring its definitions, neuroscience, and various theories. They discuss how happiness can be measured in the brain, the role of neurotransmitters, and the impact of life experiences on our emotional states. The hosts examine different personality types and their unique relationships with happiness, emphasizing that what brings joy can vary significantly from person to person. They also highlight the importance of understanding expectations around happiness and how societal pressures can influence our perceptions of it.

Psychological Umami January 24, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intriguing concept of psychological umami and its relation to our lives and relationships. He discusses how the five basic tastes—sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami—can reflect our personalities and interactions. Umami, often described as the savory taste found in foods like Parmesan cheese and soy sauce, serves as a metaphor for the essential qualities that bring harmony and satisfaction to our experiences. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and cultivating umami in our relationships to achieve a more fulfilling life.

Exploring the Nature of Love Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of love, discussing how it varies between individuals and is influenced by personal experiences. He explores the differences in how men and women perceive love, the role of bonding, and the impact of fear and possessiveness on relationships. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, Demeule emphasizes that love is a feeling rather than a defined concept, shaped by our interactions and emotional needs. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the dynamics of love in different contexts.

Yearning to be Touched Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jean Liedloff

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a profound discussion about the human need for physical and emotional connection, drawing insights from Jean Liedloff’s book, ‘The Continuum Concept.’ The conversation explores the impact of nurturing and touch on child development and adult relationships, highlighting how a lack of affection can lead to feelings of unworthiness and loneliness. Listeners share their personal experiences with touch and connection, revealing the deep-seated effects of parenting styles and societal norms on emotional well-being. The episode emphasizes the importance of feeling ‘worthy and welcome’ in fostering healthy relationships.

Bonobos and Human Behavior Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the fascinating world of bonobos, a lesser-known ape species that challenges traditional views on male dominance and aggression in the animal kingdom. They discuss how bonobos exhibit female-dominated social structures, engage in frequent sexual behavior to diffuse tension, and promote peaceful coexistence. The hosts draw parallels between bonobo behavior and human relationships, questioning societal norms around masculinity and aggression. Through their discussion, they highlight the importance of understanding these dynamics in both bonobos and humans, advocating for a more peaceful and loving approach to conflict resolution.