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Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.

Holiday Celebrations and Food Choices December 20, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati discuss the challenges of maintaining healthy habits during the holiday season. They explore the differences in dietary habits between Italians in Italy and those in America, particularly regarding carbohydrate consumption. The conversation delves into the cultural aspects of celebration, the importance of mindful eating, and strategies to enjoy festivities without overindulging. Listeners are encouraged to be aware of their food choices, especially regarding wheat products, and to celebrate with intention, whether alone or with others. The episode offers practical tips for navigating holiday parties and maintaining a balanced approach to food and festivities.

Shame and Addiction August 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Roberta Maria Ati explore the complex emotions surrounding shame, particularly in the context of societal tragedies like Hurricane Katrina. They differentiate between legitimate and toxic shame, discussing how the latter can lead to suffering and addiction. The conversation delves into the psychological effects of witnessing disaster and the feelings of powerlessness that arise from inaction. They also critique the inadequate responses from authorities in the aftermath of such events and emphasize the importance of addressing emotional pain rather than numbing it. The episode highlights the need for deeper understanding and compassion in the face of collective trauma.

Touch and Its Importance June 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Neil Shatka, Jean Liedloff, Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the critical role of touch in human development and communication. They discuss the historical context of touch, its significance in various cultures, and the psychological implications of touch deprivation. The hosts highlight research indicating that touch is essential for emotional and physical health, particularly in infants. They also address societal taboos surrounding touch, especially between genders, and the consequences of these prohibitions. The conversation delves into how touch can heal, comfort, and connect individuals, emphasizing its importance in fostering relationships and well-being.

Happiness and the Brain March 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of happiness, exploring its definitions, neuroscience, and various theories. They discuss how happiness can be measured in the brain, the role of neurotransmitters, and the impact of life experiences on our emotional states. The hosts examine different personality types and their unique relationships with happiness, emphasizing that what brings joy can vary significantly from person to person. They also highlight the importance of understanding expectations around happiness and how societal pressures can influence our perceptions of it.

Psychological Umami January 24, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intriguing concept of psychological umami and its relation to our lives and relationships. He discusses how the five basic tastes—sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami—can reflect our personalities and interactions. Umami, often described as the savory taste found in foods like Parmesan cheese and soy sauce, serves as a metaphor for the essential qualities that bring harmony and satisfaction to our experiences. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and cultivating umami in our relationships to achieve a more fulfilling life.

Exploring Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Ora Yemini Morrison

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Ora Yemini Morrison and Giullian Gioiello, delve into the complexities of relationships. They explore various types of relationships, from competitive and dominant-submissive dynamics to love-based and friendship-oriented connections. The discussion highlights how relationships can evolve over time, often shifting from one type to another. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship patterns and the emotional dynamics at play. The episode also touches on the impact of cultural differences and personal experiences on relationship dynamics, inviting callers to share their stories and insights.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.

Sibling Bonds and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of sibling relationships, discussing the emotional bonds formed between brothers and sisters. He delves into the various types of siblings, including full, half, and step-siblings, and the impact of familial connections on personal development. The conversation highlights the importance of these relationships in shaping one’s emotional well-being and the role of communication in fostering strong bonds. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own sibling experiences and the significance of family ties in their lives.