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Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

Bitterness and Relationships June 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of bitterness and its impact on relationships. He discusses the American Psychiatric Association’s interest in ‘bitterness syndrome’ and examines how hormonal responses, particularly prolactin, can affect intimacy and connection between partners. Through various anecdotes and discussions with callers, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the biological and emotional factors that contribute to relationship challenges. Armand encourages listeners to fight for their relationships and to seek deeper connections, despite the societal and biological pressures that may lead to disconnection.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Opposite Energies Attract June 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships, focusing on why people with opposite energy levels are often drawn to each other. He discusses how low-energy individuals tend to attract high-energy partners and vice versa, examining the psychological and emotional exchanges that occur in these relationships. Armand shares insights from his experience as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of energy in love and connection. He also highlights the challenges that arise when the initial attraction fades and the partners struggle to maintain their bond. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the energy dynamics at play.

Puppet of Mind Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele shares his thoughts on love and pain, inspired by a wedding ceremony he was invited to officiate. He reflects on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing that love often coexists with pain, and that both are essential to personal growth and connection. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, he explores how love can create a vortex that attracts negativity, and how understanding this dynamic can lead to deeper relationships. The episode also touches on the importance of compassion and the transformative power of touch in human connections.

Relationships with Dr. Terry Orbach Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Terry Orbach

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Terry Orbach, a marriage and family therapist, about her research on relationships and her book, ‘Five Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great.’ They discuss common myths about marriage, the importance of communication, and the factors that contribute to lasting relationships. Dr. Orbach shares insights from her long-term study of couples, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other’s values, managing conflict, and maintaining positivity in relationships. The conversation highlights practical steps couples can take to enhance their connection and happiness.