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Understanding Relationships: Medicated vs. Stimulated Types December 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of personality types: medicated and stimulated. He discusses how individuals often seek partners who balance their energy levels, with medicated types gravitating towards stimulating partners and vice versa. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the impact of energy levels on relationships, and the importance of understanding oneself and one’s partner. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship dynamics and the role of energy in their connections.

Family Constellations and Relationships March 13, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of family relationships, emphasizing the impact of our original families on our lives. He discusses the concept of family constellations, the dynamics between parents and children, and the challenges faced by single parents. The conversation delves into the historical context of family structures and how modern laws affect familial connections. Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own family experiences and the importance of questioning inherited beliefs. The episode also features insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and John Valerio, contributing to a rich dialogue about the evolving nature of family.

Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Irritability and Relationships December 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the phenomenon of irritability in relationships, discussing how love can turn into disregard over time. He examines the hormonal influences, such as prolactin and testosterone, that contribute to feelings of irritability and lack of compassion towards loved ones. Armand shares personal anecdotes and insights into how couples can navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of communication and self-awareness. The conversation highlights the need for understanding the underlying causes of irritability and the impact it has on relationships, encouraging listeners to seek connection and compassion despite the struggles.

Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Creating a Feeling of Home September 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of creating a welcoming environment that fosters connection and belonging. He emphasizes the significance of greeting loved ones when they arrive home and encourages listeners to make everyone feel important. Armand shares practical tips for entertaining, such as bringing thoughtful gifts and the value of outdoor meals. He also addresses the challenges of family dynamics, the importance of acknowledging bad moods, and the need to let go of grudges. Throughout the conversation, he highlights the essence of family bonds and the joy of being present with one another.

Psychological Umami January 24, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intriguing concept of psychological umami and its relation to our lives and relationships. He discusses how the five basic tastes—sweet, sour, salty, bitter, and umami—can reflect our personalities and interactions. Umami, often described as the savory taste found in foods like Parmesan cheese and soy sauce, serves as a metaphor for the essential qualities that bring harmony and satisfaction to our experiences. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and cultivating umami in our relationships to achieve a more fulfilling life.

Understanding Your Three Instincts December 27, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the three fundamental instincts that shape human behavior: self-preservation, social, and sexual. He discusses how these instincts influence our relationships and interactions, particularly during social gatherings and personal connections. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding which instinct dominates our lives, as this knowledge can lead to better self-awareness and healthier relationships. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, he highlights the balance needed between these instincts for a fulfilling life.

Exploring Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Ora Yemini Morrison

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Ora Yemini Morrison and Giullian Gioiello, delve into the complexities of relationships. They explore various types of relationships, from competitive and dominant-submissive dynamics to love-based and friendship-oriented connections. The discussion highlights how relationships can evolve over time, often shifting from one type to another. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship patterns and the emotional dynamics at play. The episode also touches on the impact of cultural differences and personal experiences on relationship dynamics, inviting callers to share their stories and insights.

Special Thursday Thoughts Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Peter Hogan

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of competitive, cooperative, and dominant-submissive interactions. He reflects on his experiences with Dr. Peter Hogan, a scientist who studied how electronic games can reveal relationship patterns. Armand discusses how these relationship types impact satisfaction and longevity, ultimately revealing that dominant-submissive dynamics often lead to the most enduring partnerships. He invites listeners to reflect on their own relationship preferences and dynamics, encouraging engagement through anonymous feedback.