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Power Exchange December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of power exchange in relationships, particularly focusing on dominance and submission. He discusses how individuals often fight for the rights of others while being dominated in their personal lives. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these relationships, the appeal of power dynamics, and the reasons why some individuals prefer to be submissive or dominant. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own preferences and experiences in relationships, with a focus on the complexities of emotional power and control.

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone
Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.

Crowd Behavior and Control July 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of crowd behavior, challenging the common perception of crowds as unruly mobs. He discusses how the need for belonging influences individual actions within groups and reflects on historical events, such as protests and public gatherings, to illustrate how crowd control measures can sometimes exacerbate tensions. Through various theories of crowd psychology, including convergence theory, Armand emphasizes that people in crowds often exhibit cooperation and civility rather than chaos. He invites listeners to share their own experiences with crowds and the emotions tied to them.

Genius of Instinct June 16, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Henry Weisinger, Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with author Henry Weisinger, who discusses his book ‘The Genius of Instinct.’ They explore the role of instincts in human behavior, emphasizing how these hardwired tools have evolved to help us thrive rather than merely survive. Weisinger identifies six key instincts: shelter seeking, care soliciting, caregiving, beautifying, cooperation, and curiosity. The conversation delves into how these instincts manifest in our lives and relationships, and the importance of embracing vulnerability for personal growth and connection.

Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life April 8, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dacher Keltner
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Dacher Keltner, author of ‘Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life.’ They explore the concept of a meaningful life through the lens of Eastern philosophy and positive emotions. Dr. Keltner discusses the importance of emotions like compassion, gratitude, and reverence in fostering a sense of community and connection. The conversation delves into how our interactions, including laughter and touch, can bring out the best in others, and how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier relationships in both personal and professional contexts.

Sibling Rivalry November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of sibling rivalry, a common issue in families that can lead to long-lasting psychological effects. He discusses the roots of competition among siblings, drawing parallels with nature and highlighting how competition for limited resources, such as parental attention and love, can manifest in hostility. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand delves into how sibling rivalry can develop into deeper issues, affecting relationships well into adulthood. He also offers insights on how parents can better manage these dynamics to foster healthier sibling relationships.

Competition and Its Psychological Implications November 2, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin
Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atin explore the intriguing nature of competition, its origins, and its psychological effects on individuals. They discuss how competition manifests in various aspects of life, including sibling rivalry and societal structures. The hosts delve into the science behind finger length and its correlation with hormone levels, revealing how these biological factors influence behavior and competitiveness. The conversation also touches on the differences between male and female competition, the roles of testosterone and estrogen, and the implications for social and sexual dynamics. This episode provides valuable insights into understanding competition’s impact on personal and professional relationships.