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Dealing with Difficult People September 13, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Antti

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Antti explore the complexities of interacting with difficult individuals. They discuss various types of difficult people, including the angry, fearful, overly emotional, and passive-aggressive. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing both subjective and objective experiences when dealing with such individuals. They provide insights into understanding the underlying emotions that drive difficult behaviors and offer strategies for managing interactions effectively. By fostering self-awareness and empathy, listeners can navigate challenging relationships and improve their own emotional resilience.

Living Together: The Neat vs. Messy Dilemma August 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of living with roommates or partners, focusing on the contrasts between neat and messy individuals. He discusses how these differences can affect relationships, from noise levels to food sharing and personal space. Armand emphasizes the importance of communication and compromise when cohabitating, highlighting the need to address issues like cleanliness, noise sensitivity, and personal boundaries. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he provides insights into navigating the complexities of shared living arrangements.

Exploring Authority and Relationships August 2, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Shreya Mundal

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with Shreya Mundal, a mitigation specialist at the Legal Aid Society, to discuss the complexities of authority figures and personal relationships. They explore how early experiences with parents can shape interactions with authority, the feelings of powerlessness that often arise, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking negative patterns. Shreya shares insights from her work with clients in the criminal justice system, emphasizing the need for introspection and understanding one’s life history to foster healthier relationships with authority figures. The conversation also touches on activism, employment dynamics, and the significance of addressing underlying emotional issues.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Stealth Saboteur April 25, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘stealth saboteur,’ which he identifies as hidden anger that can undermine our well-being and relationships. Through various examples, he illustrates how unexpressed anger affects interactions with friends, clients, and even healthcare providers. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and communicate openly about anger, both with themselves and others. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions that drive behaviors and the need for honest dialogue in relationships. The episode includes listener calls discussing personal experiences with anger and communication.

Sibling Rivalry November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of sibling rivalry, a common issue in families that can lead to long-lasting psychological effects. He discusses the roots of competition among siblings, drawing parallels with nature and highlighting how competition for limited resources, such as parental attention and love, can manifest in hostility. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand delves into how sibling rivalry can develop into deeper issues, affecting relationships well into adulthood. He also offers insights on how parents can better manage these dynamics to foster healthier sibling relationships.

Spring and Managing Anger in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of dealing with anger from loved ones, coworkers, and friends. He explores various scenarios where individuals may express anger unjustly and offers practical strategies to navigate these situations. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions behind anger and provides tools for responding effectively, such as not reacting with anger, expressing vulnerability, and using specific phrases to disarm confrontations. The episode aims to equip listeners with insights and techniques to foster better relationships and manage conflict more effectively.

Special Thursday Thoughts Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Peter Hogan

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of competitive, cooperative, and dominant-submissive interactions. He reflects on his experiences with Dr. Peter Hogan, a scientist who studied how electronic games can reveal relationship patterns. Armand discusses how these relationship types impact satisfaction and longevity, ultimately revealing that dominant-submissive dynamics often lead to the most enduring partnerships. He invites listeners to reflect on their own relationship preferences and dynamics, encouraging engagement through anonymous feedback.

Dealing with Narcissism in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of dealing with narcissistic personalities in relationships. Joined by Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist,’ they explore the characteristics of narcissists, including self-absorption, entitlement, and emotional detachment. The conversation delves into the dynamics between narcissists and their partners, offering insights on how to navigate these complex relationships. Wendy emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and provides strategies for setting healthy boundaries while fostering empathy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize the signs of narcissism and learn how to respond effectively.

Latest in Research on Relationships and ADHD Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships affected by ADHD and the impact of serotonin on emotional well-being. He explores the challenges faced by partners of individuals with attention deficit disorders, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. The conversation also delves into the biological factors influencing commitment and infidelity, highlighting recent research on genetic predispositions. Dimele encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships, the dynamics of love, and the significance of shared experiences in fostering connection and growth.