Keyword: compulsive behavior

Obsessiveness and Love September 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of obsessiveness and its connection to love and relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Ben Starr, and Giullian Gioiello, the conversation explores the psychological mechanisms behind obsessive thoughts and behaviors, including the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. The group shares insights on how emotional evanescence affects our perceptions of past traumas and relationships, and offers practical advice on coping with obsessive feelings, such as engaging in acts of kindness, physical activity, and seeking new experiences to break the cycle of negative thoughts.

Losing Control April 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of losing control, particularly in the context of anger and compulsive behaviors. He explores how various factors, including alcohol, emotional wounds, and hormonal influences, can lead to moments of rage or impulsivity. The conversation delves into the psychological underpinnings of these reactions and the importance of honesty in expressing emotions. Armand emphasizes that losing control is not a normal response and encourages listeners to understand the triggers behind their feelings. The episode also addresses the societal pressures that can inhibit self-expression and the need for healthy coping mechanisms.

Altered Personalities and the Real You March 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of altered personalities and how they affect our perception of self. He discusses the idea that many people carry around different versions of themselves, often shaped by experiences and societal expectations. Through engaging dialogue, he examines how these alter selves can emerge in various situations, such as during moments of fear or when facing life changes. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own alter personalities and the impact they have on their lives, relationships, and overall well-being.

Winding Down the Year December 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the challenges and burdens we carry into the new year, using the metaphor of Mr. Bean’s outhouse to illustrate the invisible shields we create to protect ourselves from emotional pain. He discusses the importance of recognizing these burdens and how they shape our lives, while encouraging listeners to embrace their struggles rather than hide them. With calls from listeners sharing their experiences, the conversation delves into themes of acceptance, connection, and the journey toward a more positive mindset.

Powerlessness and Helplessness November 8, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of powerlessness and helplessness, particularly in the context of political and personal struggles. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore how feelings of powerlessness can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety and social phobia. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling out of control and the importance of recognizing one’s rights and entitlements. They emphasize that while powerlessness is a common human experience, acknowledging it can lead to personal growth and healing.

Romance and Relationships September 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance, focusing on the concepts of womanizers and manizers. He delves into the psychological aspects of sexual addiction, narcissism, and the motivations behind serial relationships. Through discussions on philanderers, erotomania, and persistent sexual arousal syndrome, Armand provides insights into why some individuals seek multiple partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs and the impact of familial relationships on adult behavior. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of love and connection.

Addiction and Mood Modification August 16, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of addiction, particularly focusing on internet addiction and its impact on relationships. He explores how mood modification plays a crucial role in various addictions, from gambling to shopping, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of addiction. The conversation highlights the challenges of intervention, the dynamics of relationships affected by addiction, and the need for moderation or complete abstinence. Armand and his guest, Kent Robertshaw, delve into the psychological aspects of addiction and the various approaches to treatment, including harm reduction and the role of support systems.

Synaptic Self June 7, 2006

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the concept of the ‘synaptic self’ and its implications for understanding emotions and mental health. They discuss the role of the amygdala in processing fear and how synapses facilitate communication between neurons. The conversation delves into how emotional experiences shape our behaviors and the importance of neurotransmitters in this process. Listeners learn about the impact of stress and overstimulation on the brain, as well as strategies for managing emotional responses and improving mental well-being.