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Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 8, 2013

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors, linking them to the concept of the ‘refugee syndrome.’ He discusses how feelings of isolation and disconnection can lead individuals to seek artificial dependencies through various forms of addiction, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists, highlighting the psychological roots of addiction and offering hope for those struggling with these issues. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own dependencies and consider the underlying emotional needs that drive them.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 7, 2013

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors. He discusses how feelings of loneliness and disconnection can lead individuals to seek solace in various forms of dependency, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists and examines the psychological roots of addiction, including the ‘refugee syndrome’ and the impact of societal expectations on men’s relationships with addiction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own behaviors and consider the underlying emotional needs that may drive them.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Greed and Insatiability April 27, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of greed and its insatiable nature, discussing how societal values and personal experiences shape our desires. He delves into the psychological aspects of greed, examining its impact on happiness and relationships. Through various examples, including the stock market and personal anecdotes, Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with greed. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between healthy desires and destructive greed, encouraging a conversation about the balance between personal fulfillment and the well-being of others.

Happiness and Resistance December 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the complex nature of happiness and the psychological resistance that often hinders personal growth. They discuss the myriad of self-help resources available on happiness, the prevalence of depression, and the significant financial investments people make in search of joy. The conversation delves into the concept of the ‘engineer’ within us, which protects us from change and the unknown. Through dialogue and acceptance, the hosts encourage listeners to confront their resistance and embrace the journey towards a more fulfilling life.

The End Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the survival strategies of animals and how they parallel human behavior. He discusses the instinctual need to survive, the role of deception in both the animal kingdom and human interactions, and the various ways individuals protect themselves from perceived threats. From mimicry and camouflage to the psychological defenses humans employ, DeMille illustrates how these strategies manifest in everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these behaviors as adaptations to ensure safety and survival in a complex world.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.