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Pain and Its Many Forms June 9, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of pain, both physical and emotional, with guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello. They explore various types of pain, including nociceptive, neuropathic, and psychogenic pain, sharing personal experiences and insights. The conversation delves into how emotional pain can often overshadow physical pain and the importance of acknowledging both. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their own experiences with pain, creating a space for understanding and healing. The episode emphasizes the significance of recognizing the connections between our emotional states and physical sensations.

Acute Stress Disorder and Its Impact April 22, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses acute stress disorder, its symptoms, and how it differs from post-traumatic stress disorder. He explores the effects of traumatic events, such as loss and sudden changes, on mental health. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger as a natural response to trauma. Armand encourages listeners to seek help and highlights the significance of self-trust in overcoming emotional challenges. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of trauma in relationships and personal growth.

Shared Pain and Connection January 14, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Ben Starr, Diane, Giullian Gioiello, Oh Sui, Seth

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of shared pain and its impact on relationships and personal growth. Through discussions with guests, the show delves into how emotional pain can become addictive and how shared experiences of pain can foster deeper connections among individuals. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, cultural differences in expressing grief, and the dynamics of relationships influenced by past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with pain and connection, and how these elements shape their lives.

Exploring Feelings and Therapy June 11, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of feelings in therapy and the role of therapists in helping clients access their emotions. He shares a poignant story about a woman mourning her mother’s death and reflects on the challenges of managing feelings in therapeutic settings. The conversation also touches on the mismanagement of Pacifica Radio and WBAI, emphasizing the need for support to keep valuable programming alive. Throughout the episode, DeMille encourages listeners to confront their feelings and consider the deeper emotional connections that shape their experiences.

Leave a Positive Life April 23, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of leading a positive life and the psychological implications of our behaviors under pressure. He discusses the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse, particularly in familial relationships, and how these dynamics shape our identities. Through listener calls, Armand addresses personal struggles with parental relationships, emotional turmoil, and the quest for self-validation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s internal self and the consequences of unresolved emotional baggage. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and seek healthier connections.

Bringing Ideas and Concepts for a Positively Minded Life November 12, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen

Category: Mind-Body Wellness Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen, a physician and professor at UCSF, about the importance of human connection in medicine. They discuss the need to return to a more compassionate approach to healthcare, emphasizing the significance of listening and understanding patients beyond their physical ailments. Dr. Remen shares insights from her course, ‘The Healer’s Art,’ which aims to remind medical students of the heart of medicine and the values of service, compassion, and authenticity. The conversation highlights the challenges faced by healthcare professionals and the necessity of nurturing their own humanity to better serve others.

Understanding Transitional Objects and Sensitivity January 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological concept of transitional objects and how they relate to grief and relationships. He explores the emotional complexities that arise when individuals experience loss, particularly in the context of divorce and the death of loved ones. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand highlights the importance of being sensitive and compassionate in relationships, emphasizing the need for understanding and support. The conversation also touches on the role of music and memories as transitional objects that can evoke deep feelings and connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with grief and the significance of transitional figures in their lives.

Expectations and Their Impact January 24, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of expectations and their effects on our emotional well-being. He explains how unmet expectations can lead to stronger negative feelings compared to the positive feelings derived from fulfilled expectations. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores the importance of adaptability and resilience in managing expectations. The discussion also touches on the psychological implications of expectations in relationships and personal achievements, emphasizing the need to balance hope with realistic outcomes.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Altered Personalities and the Real You March 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of altered personalities and how they affect our perception of self. He discusses the idea that many people carry around different versions of themselves, often shaped by experiences and societal expectations. Through engaging dialogue, he examines how these alter selves can emerge in various situations, such as during moments of fear or when facing life changes. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own alter personalities and the impact they have on their lives, relationships, and overall well-being.