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Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Medici Effect April 12, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Franz Johansson, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of the Medici Effect with guests Kent Robertshaw and Franz Johansson. The Medici Effect refers to the innovative breakthroughs that occur when ideas from different cultures and disciplines intersect. Johansson explains how the Medicis in Renaissance Florence fostered creativity by bringing together diverse thinkers, and he shares examples of modern innovators who have successfully combined disparate ideas to create groundbreaking solutions. The conversation explores the importance of stepping outside one’s comfort zone and embracing risk in the pursuit of creativity.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Exploring Love Styles November 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love, discussing various love styles including ludus, storge, pragma, agape, and manic love. He highlights how these styles manifest in relationships and their psychological implications. Armand emphasizes the significance of understanding these different forms of love to navigate personal relationships effectively. He also engages with callers, sharing insights on how love can be both a source of joy and confusion, particularly in the context of mental health. The discussion aims to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of love’s multifaceted nature.

Pain and the Human Experience August 30, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw explore the complex ways individuals cope with pain and trauma, particularly in the context of societal disasters like Hurricane Katrina. They discuss the tendency to compartmentalize emotions, the impact of loss on families, and the importance of empathy and community in healing. The conversation highlights how people often suppress their feelings to function in daily life, yet ultimately, these repressed emotions can resurface in various forms. The hosts emphasize the need for open dialogue about grief and the significance of supporting one another through difficult times.

Shame and Addiction August 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Roberta Maria Ati explore the complex emotions surrounding shame, particularly in the context of societal tragedies like Hurricane Katrina. They differentiate between legitimate and toxic shame, discussing how the latter can lead to suffering and addiction. The conversation delves into the psychological effects of witnessing disaster and the feelings of powerlessness that arise from inaction. They also critique the inadequate responses from authorities in the aftermath of such events and emphasize the importance of addressing emotional pain rather than numbing it. The episode highlights the need for deeper understanding and compassion in the face of collective trauma.

Kindness August 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound concept of kindness, discussing its significance in human relationships and society. He delves into the attributes that contribute to a well-balanced individual, including wisdom, courage, humanity, and justice. Armand emphasizes the importance of being connected to others and how acts of kindness can foster community and belonging. He reflects on personal experiences and the challenges that prevent kindness, such as fear, jealousy, and greed. Throughout the discussion, he encourages listeners to recognize opportunities for kindness in their daily lives and to cultivate a more compassionate world.

Opposite Energies Attract June 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships, focusing on why people with opposite energy levels are often drawn to each other. He discusses how low-energy individuals tend to attract high-energy partners and vice versa, examining the psychological and emotional exchanges that occur in these relationships. Armand shares insights from his experience as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of energy in love and connection. He also highlights the challenges that arise when the initial attraction fades and the partners struggle to maintain their bond. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the energy dynamics at play.

Truth, Innocence, and the Human Experience April 27, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne O'Connell, Kent Robertshaw, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a deep conversation with guests Kent Robertshaw and Anne O’Connell about the complexities of truth, innocence, and the human experience. They explore themes of gullibility, cynicism, and the importance of psychotherapy in treating mental health issues. The discussion touches on the challenges faced by mental health practitioners in building trust with clients, especially those with histories of substance abuse and trauma. The guests share insights from their experiences in outpatient mental health clinics, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in therapy.

Passion, Danger, and Attention Deficit Disorder March 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intriguing connection between risk-taking, passion, and modern psychological disorders like attention deficit disorder (ADD). He discusses how the thrill of danger attracts individuals across various ages and backgrounds, and how this drive can be linked to biological imperatives and dopamine levels. Through engaging anecdotes and listener calls, the show delves into the nature of risk, the societal perceptions of thrill-seeking behavior, and the importance of balancing adventure with safety in our lives.