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Self-Hatred and Acceptance August 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of self-hatred, discussing how it often stems from childhood experiences and societal pressures. He delves into the behaviors of passive-aggressive individuals and the self-blame that can accompany such actions. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding the inner child. The conversation highlights how self-criticism can lead to a cycle of negativity, and Armand encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and seek validation from within rather than from external sources.

Revenge and Its Consequences July 6, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Stephanie D’Ambra delve into the complex topic of revenge. They explore its origins, psychological implications, and societal consequences, questioning whether seeking vengeance truly brings satisfaction or merely perpetuates unhappiness. Through various examples, including historical references and personal anecdotes, they highlight the paradox of revenge, where those who seek it often end up feeling worse. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with revenge and the potential for healing through forgiveness and understanding rather than retaliation.

Anosognosia and Self-Awareness June 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of anosognosia, the inability to recognize one’s own mental illness or incompetence. He explores how this condition affects individuals, particularly those with schizophrenia, and how it can lead to violent behavior. The conversation delves into the importance of self-awareness and the challenges faced by those who cannot see their own flaws. Armand also shares anecdotes and insights on relationships, arguing that recognizing one’s issues is crucial for personal growth and healing. The episode highlights the complexities of mental health and the need for compassion and understanding in dealing with others.

Understanding Depression and Its Complexities June 17, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the intricacies of depression, exploring its psychological and physiological aspects. He discusses the impact of narcissism on mental health, the connection between depression and suicide, and the role of neurotransmitters in emotional well-being. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding depression as a chronic brain overload and highlights the significance of seeking professional help for those struggling with severe depression. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, he sheds light on the complexities of mental health and the need for compassion and awareness.

Raising Drive April 21, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Carmen Roberts, Sherri Siegel

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a deep conversation with guests Carmen Roberts and Sherri Siegel about the intersection of personal happiness, career challenges, and the principles of Buddhism. Carmen shares her journey from a successful career in financial news to exploring ways to promote happiness and fulfillment through her new show. The discussion touches on the struggles of maintaining positivity in a competitive environment and the transformative power of chanting and mindfulness. They also delve into the broader implications of greed and compassion in the financial world, emphasizing the importance of connectedness and transparency.

Undervalued Self April 8, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Elaine Aron

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Elaine Aron, author of ‘The Undervalued Self.’ They explore the concept of self-worth and how individuals often undervalue themselves due to social hierarchies and comparisons. Dr. Aron discusses the importance of recognizing the difference between ranking and linking in relationships, emphasizing that true self-esteem comes from loving connections rather than societal standings. The conversation delves into the psychological impacts of feeling inadequate and the role of attachment in shaping our self-perception. Listeners are encouraged to foster linking relationships to combat feelings of undervaluation.

Sobriety and Being Present December 29, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of sobriety beyond the traditional associations with alcohol and drugs. He delves into the idea that sobriety is about being present and fully engaged in the moment, free from distractions and attachments. Through discussions with a group of men, Armand reflects on what it means to truly be here now, encouraging listeners to consider how often they experience this state of clarity and connection. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining presence in a world filled with distractions and the importance of emotional honesty, including the role of tears in achieving a sober state of being.

Irritability and Relationships December 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the phenomenon of irritability in relationships, discussing how love can turn into disregard over time. He examines the hormonal influences, such as prolactin and testosterone, that contribute to feelings of irritability and lack of compassion towards loved ones. Armand shares personal anecdotes and insights into how couples can navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of communication and self-awareness. The conversation highlights the need for understanding the underlying causes of irritability and the impact it has on relationships, encouraging listeners to seek connection and compassion despite the struggles.

Understanding Manners and Etiquette September 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Sherri Siegel to explore the complexities of manners and etiquette in contemporary society. They discuss the differences between various forms of dementia and how they affect behavior, particularly in terms of social interactions. The conversation delves into the evolution of manners over time, the impact of cultural changes, and the importance of compassion and understanding in social settings. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences with etiquette and to consider the significance of respect and kindness in everyday interactions.

Trouble with Friends August 26, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Altieri, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of friendship and the challenges of delivering unpleasant truths. Joined by physician Sherri Siegel and psychotherapist Catherine Altieri, the conversation explores the importance of honesty in relationships, the emotional burden of being a bearer of bad news, and the reactions people have when faced with difficult information. The discussion touches on the historical figure of Cassandra, who was doomed to tell the truth but never believed, drawing parallels to modern-day experiences of doubt and skepticism in communication. The episode emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding when navigating tough conversations.