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Managing Your Temper April 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of temper and anger management with guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the origins of temper, its impact on personal relationships, and the importance of expressing emotions in a healthy way. The conversation touches on childhood experiences, the cultural aspects of anger, and strategies for coping with explosive emotions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with temper and consider how to manage it constructively. The episode also includes listener call-ins sharing personal stories and insights.

Performance Anxiety and Public Speaking June 26, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Natalie H. Rogers

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Natalie H. Rogers about overcoming performance anxiety and the importance of effective public speaking. Natalie, a licensed clinical social worker and author of ‘The New Talk Power,’ shares insights on techniques to manage anxiety, including proper breathing, body awareness, and the significance of structure in communication. They discuss how performance anxiety can affect individuals in various situations, from job interviews to public presentations, and provide practical tips for building confidence in speaking. The conversation emphasizes the need for training and practice to develop effective communication skills.

Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Covert Brutality and Passive-Aggressive Behavior March 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of covert brutality, particularly focusing on passive-aggressive behavior. He explains how this subtle form of abuse can manifest in relationships, often disguised as normal or caring actions. Armand highlights the characteristics of passive-aggressive individuals, including procrastination, forgetfulness, and ambiguity, and how these behaviors can lead to confusion and frustration in interpersonal dynamics. He encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and consider the emotional impact they have on both the passive-aggressive person and those around them.

Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

Dealing with Difficult People September 13, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Antti

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Antti explore the complexities of interacting with difficult individuals. They discuss various types of difficult people, including the angry, fearful, overly emotional, and passive-aggressive. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing both subjective and objective experiences when dealing with such individuals. They provide insights into understanding the underlying emotions that drive difficult behaviors and offer strategies for managing interactions effectively. By fostering self-awareness and empathy, listeners can navigate challenging relationships and improve their own emotional resilience.

Communication Beyond Words June 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the various forms of non-verbal communication, emphasizing the importance of touch and somatic expression. He discusses how body language, personal space, and gestures convey emotions and intentions without the need for words. The episode highlights the significance of touch in human relationships and its impact on emotional well-being, particularly in children and the elderly. Armand also addresses the complexities of touch in different cultural contexts and the confusion surrounding it in modern society. Listeners are encouraged to be mindful of their own communication styles and the messages they send through non-verbal cues.

Communication and Connection Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Carlos, Joe, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in romantic relationships. He shares insights from a young couple struggling with communication difficulties as they prepare for marriage. Armand emphasizes the importance of emotional connection, suggesting that effective communication involves holding hands and looking into each other’s eyes. He explores the role of inner demons and past experiences that can hinder open dialogue. The conversation also touches on the differences between emotional and cognitive empathy, and how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier interactions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their communication styles and the impact of their emotional histories.

Arguments and Nonviolent Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tom Bond

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of arguments and conflicts. He shares insights from his friend Richard on evaluating the motivations behind conversations and the importance of recognizing when discussions are unproductive. Joined by Tom Bond, a representative of nonviolent communication, they explore how to navigate difficult conversations, the significance of empathy, and the need to focus on feelings and needs rather than judgments. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and connection in communication.

Working With You Is Killing Me Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Crowley, Kathy Elster

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes authors Kathy Elster and Catherine Crowley to discuss their book, ‘Working With You Is Killing Me.’ They explore the complexities of workplace dynamics, including how personal issues can manifest in professional settings. The conversation delves into the concept of being ‘hooked’ by difficult colleagues and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in workplace conflicts. Elster and Crowley provide insights on managing emotions, setting boundaries, and the psychological patterns that influence workplace relationships. This episode offers valuable strategies for navigating the challenges of working with others.