The Positive Mind

Keyword: commitment

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Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel
Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.

Love and Relationships March 1, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Annalisa Erba
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with clinical psychologist Dr. Annalisa Erba about the evolving landscape of romantic partnerships. They discuss how societal expectations around love, marriage, and family have shifted over the decades, particularly since the 1960s. Dr. Erba shares insights on the complexities of modern relationships, including the rise of singlehood, changing gender roles, and the impact of technology on dating. The conversation also touches on historical perspectives of love and marriage, revealing how cultural norms have shaped personal relationships today.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti
Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.

Loyalty December 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of loyalty, discussing its implications in personal relationships, politics, and society. He reflects on how loyalty can shift over time, influenced by personal experiences and societal expectations. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, he encourages listeners to examine their own loyalties—whether to family, friends, or country—and what those loyalties truly mean. The conversation also touches on the impact of loyalty in business and the importance of standing by others during difficult times.

Love Regrets November 16, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the regrets that often accompany romantic relationships. He discusses various types of love, including storgic, agapic, manic, pragmatic, and erotic love, and how unresolved childhood issues can manifest in adult relationships. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of regret, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and growth in navigating love. The show encourages reflection on past relationships and the lessons learned, ultimately guiding listeners towards a more positive mindset in their love lives.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Relationships and Evolutionary Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of modern relationships and how they have evolved over time. He discusses the impact of societal changes, chemical influences, and the evolution of human behavior on romance and courtship. Delving into evolutionary psychology, he examines how the dynamics of attraction and bonding have shifted, particularly in the context of modern challenges like hyperstimulation and the effects of technology. The conversation also touches on the neurochemistry of love and the various factors that contribute to romantic connections, highlighting the intricate interplay between biology and emotional experiences.

Latest in Research on Relationships and ADHD Undated

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships affected by ADHD and the impact of serotonin on emotional well-being. He explores the challenges faced by partners of individuals with attention deficit disorders, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. The conversation also delves into the biological factors influencing commitment and infidelity, highlighting recent research on genetic predispositions. Dimele encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships, the dynamics of love, and the significance of shared experiences in fostering connection and growth.