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Power Dynamics November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the multifaceted nature of power, discussing its various forms, including situational, directional, and fear-based power. He delves into the psychological implications of power struggles, particularly within familial and societal contexts. The conversation highlights how power dynamics can manifest in relationships, especially in childhood experiences, and the long-term effects they can have on individuals. Armand also addresses the darker aspects of power, including sadistic tendencies and the impact of powerlessness on behavior. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Honoring Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Catherine, Dario, Dr. Scott Baum, Giullian Gioiello, Jason, Jay, Ling, Marie Antoinette

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of honoring others by speaking positively about them, inspired by a program from Joel Osteen. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the good in people, both directly and indirectly, and contrasts this with the tendency to gossip negatively. The conversation explores how positive affirmations can strengthen relationships and create a supportive community. Listeners are encouraged to practice honoring others in their daily lives, highlighting the simplicity and impact of kind words and actions.

Consistency in Parenting and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of consistency in parenting and personal relationships. He discusses a study by Israeli researchers that reveals how consistent parenting can lead to effective behavior in children, but may also foster resentment. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal experiences, examining how past relationships with parents can influence adult romantic choices. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating emotional connections, the impact of inconsistency, and the importance of understanding one’s own needs in relationships.

Cultural Perspectives on Mental Health Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various psychiatric syndromes unique to different cultures, highlighting how cultural beliefs shape perceptions of mental health. He discusses the stigma surrounding mental illness in Asian communities, the concept of ‘running amok’ in Malaysia, and the impact of cultural practices on mental health. Through examples like Williams Syndrome in Japan and ghost sickness among Native American tribes, DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding these cultural contexts to better address mental health issues. The conversation also touches on the need for empathy and awareness in a rapidly globalizing world.

Holiday Connections and Disconnections Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of human connections during the holiday season. He reflects on personal experiences of connection and disconnection, particularly in family dynamics, and discusses the yearning many people have for deeper relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into feelings of alienation and the struggle to connect in a world where many feel isolated. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own connections and consider the importance of community and understanding in fostering relationships.

Self-Medication and Its Impacts Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw discuss the growing trend of self-medication as individuals take charge of their health amidst challenges in accessing traditional medical care. They explore the benefits of self-monitoring and self-care, while also addressing the potential pitfalls of relying too heavily on self-medication, particularly in the context of emotional and physical pain. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s body, the role of feedback in self-care, and the need for supportive relationships in navigating health challenges.

How to Handle Anger from Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses strategies for dealing with irrational anger from loved ones or colleagues. He explores the various reasons behind anger, including chronic anger and passive-aggressive behavior, and emphasizes the importance of not reacting with anger in return. DeMille provides practical tools for disarming anger, such as acknowledging the other person’s feelings, using vulnerability, and even crying as a response. He highlights the significance of understanding the underlying fears behind anger and the need for tenderness in resolving conflicts. The episode aims to equip listeners with the knowledge to navigate challenging interpersonal dynamics effectively.

Understanding Social Psychology and Stereotypes Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Dr. Katherine Good, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses social psychology with Dr. Katherine Good, an associate professor at Baruch College. They explore how social influences shape our thoughts and behaviors, particularly through the lens of stereotypes and prejudice. Dr. Good explains the concept of stereotype threat and how it affects performance in various contexts, including education and policing. The conversation delves into the implications of implicit biases and the importance of understanding our own behaviors in relation to societal stereotypes. The episode highlights the need for awareness and compassion in addressing these complex issues.

Arguments and Nonviolent Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tom Bond

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of arguments and conflicts. He shares insights from his friend Richard on evaluating the motivations behind conversations and the importance of recognizing when discussions are unproductive. Joined by Tom Bond, a representative of nonviolent communication, they explore how to navigate difficult conversations, the significance of empathy, and the need to focus on feelings and needs rather than judgments. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and connection in communication.

Understanding Your True Self Through Animal Choices Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of self-discovery through the metaphor of animals and colors. He discusses how the animal one chooses reflects their true nature, while their favorite color represents a facade. Through various examples shared by listeners, Armand illustrates the contrast between one’s intrinsic qualities and the persona they project. He delves into the complexities of emotions like pity and self-pity, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself to achieve harmony in life. The show encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection and recognize the deeper truths behind their identities.