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Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Ignoring People and Being Ignored August 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of being ignored and the act of ignoring others. He discusses how these behaviors can stem from childhood experiences and societal expectations, with insights on passive-aggressive tendencies and the need for attention. Through various anecdotes and examples, including the challenges faced in medical settings and personal relationships, the conversation delves into the emotional impact of feeling invisible. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with being ignored and the importance of communication in relationships.

Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Capgras Syndrome and Depersonalization April 19, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jeffrey Abugel, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses Capgras Syndrome, a condition where individuals believe their loved ones are imposters. Joined by Jeffrey Abugel, who shares his experiences with depersonalization disorder, they explore the psychological implications of feeling disconnected from oneself and reality. The conversation delves into the symptoms, causes, and potential treatments for these complex disorders, emphasizing the emotional struggles faced by those affected. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these conditions and offers hope for recovery through therapy and medication.

How Do People Perceive You? March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of self-perception and how others perceive us. He discusses the importance of understanding how we are viewed by those around us, whether they see us as trustworthy, invisible, or as a resource. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into the nuances of relationships and the impact of our actions and words on how we are perceived. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the stories they tell about themselves, ultimately questioning the gap between self-image and external perception.

Infectious Moods and Mental Health January 19, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intriguing connection between the immune system and mental health. Recent research suggests that infections can influence mood and behavior, potentially triggering conditions like obsessive-compulsive disorder and Tourette’s syndrome. The discussion includes real-life examples, such as the case of a young boy whose personality changed drastically due to a streptococcal infection. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding these links, as they could lead to new treatments for various mental health disorders. The episode highlights the evolving view of the brain’s relationship with the immune system and the implications for mental well-being.

Thursday Thoughts December 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of vainglory, distinguishing it from boastfulness. He explores how vainglorious individuals often seek admiration by subtly inserting their accomplishments into conversations about significant events, like 9-11. Armand reflects on the nature of vanity and humility, emphasizing the importance of genuine humility over self-promotion. He encourages listeners to recognize the signs of vainglory in themselves and others, advocating for understanding and compassion towards those who may feel inadequate and resort to boasting as a defense mechanism. The episode concludes with a reminder of the value of humility in personal interactions.

Gratitude and the Holidays November 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of gratitude, especially during the holiday season. He discusses the expectations surrounding gratitude, the importance of empathy, and how individuals often overlook the effort that goes into holiday gatherings. Armand also addresses the feelings of loneliness that can accompany the holidays and offers suggestions for those who find themselves alone. He emphasizes the significance of volunteering and helping others as a way to foster gratitude and connection. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with gratitude and the complexities of family dynamics during festive times.

Exploring Emotional Reactions September 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elisa, Feli Stengel, Lauren Sykes, Marcus, Thelma Wingate

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of emotional reactions, particularly focusing on irrationality and over-emotionality in relationships. He discusses how these reactions can manifest in various forms, such as fear, anger, and sadness, and how they can impact interpersonal dynamics. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these emotional responses and their biological underpinnings, particularly the role of the amygdala. He also highlights the societal fascination with emotional extremes, especially in media, and encourages listeners to seek calm and rationality amidst emotional turmoil.

Understanding the Psychopath September 16, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Stephanie D’Ambra delve into the complex mind of a psychopath, exploring the characteristics that define this personality disorder. They discuss the lack of empathy, impulsivity, and manipulative behaviors often associated with psychopaths, as well as the neurological underpinnings revealed through modern imaging techniques. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of psychopathy, including its prevalence in prisons and the challenges of rehabilitation. Listeners gain insights into the emotional traits and behaviors that can help identify psychopaths in everyday life.