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Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.

Powerlessness March 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the concept of powerlessness and its impact on mental health. They discuss how feelings of powerlessness can lead to depression, particularly when combined with self-directed anger. The hosts delve into various aspects of power, including addiction, love, and societal expectations, while emphasizing the importance of recognizing and accepting one’s limitations. Through listener calls, they highlight personal experiences and the struggle to regain control in the face of uncontrollable circumstances. The conversation encourages self-reflection and the pursuit of support from others.

Dependency and Autonomy July 5, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of dependency and autonomy, particularly in the context of relationships and personal development. He explores the characteristics of dependent personalities, the impact of excessive dependency, and the importance of autonomy for emotional health. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into the nuances of dependency, its effects on individuals, and how it can manifest in relationships. The conversation touches on the balance between needing support and fostering independence, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and personal growth.

Covert Brutality and Passive-Aggressive Behavior March 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of covert brutality, particularly focusing on passive-aggressive behavior. He explains how this subtle form of abuse can manifest in relationships, often disguised as normal or caring actions. Armand highlights the characteristics of passive-aggressive individuals, including procrastination, forgetfulness, and ambiguity, and how these behaviors can lead to confusion and frustration in interpersonal dynamics. He encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and consider the emotional impact they have on both the passive-aggressive person and those around them.

Sandwich Generation April 8, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges faced by the sandwich generation, a term describing adults who care for both their children and aging parents. He highlights the emotional and physical toll this dual responsibility can take, especially on women, who make up a significant portion of this demographic. The conversation delves into the complexities of modern family dynamics, including the prolonged dependence of young adults on their parents and the increased longevity of older generations, which often leads to heightened caregiving demands. Armand encourages listeners to seek support and prioritize their own well-being amidst these challenges.

Chemistry of Love February 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate chemistry of relationships, emphasizing how the emotional states of partners can influence one another. He discusses the challenges of maintaining personal well-being when a loved one is struggling and questions whether it’s possible to remain unaffected by a partner’s mood. Through various examples, including the dynamics of family relationships and the impact of addiction, Armand invites listeners to reflect on their experiences and share their thoughts. The show emphasizes the importance of self-care and the need for support systems, like therapy and support groups, to navigate these complex emotional landscapes.

Childhood Sexual Abuse and Its Impact December 1, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Christine Courtois

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the sensitive and challenging topic of childhood sexual abuse with counseling psychologist Dr. Christine Courtois. They explore the complexities of incest, the definition of consent, and the long-term effects of such trauma on survivors. Dr. Courtois shares insights from her research and clinical experience, highlighting the psychological and physical repercussions of abuse, as well as the importance of addressing both victims and offenders in treatment. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, prevention, and support for those affected by these issues.