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New Year’s Reflections on Relationships December 31, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional complexities surrounding relationships as the year comes to a close. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore themes of love, guilt, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals may stay in relationships out of obligation, the significance of New Year’s Eve in reflecting on past relationships, and the struggles of navigating feelings of loneliness and desire for closeness. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics and the emotional toll they may carry into the new year.

Exploring Loneliness and Relationships December 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love, loneliness, and relationships, especially during the holiday season. He reflects on the feelings of isolation many experience and the societal pressures to be in a relationship. Through poetry and personal anecdotes, Armand invites listeners to share their experiences and thoughts on being alone or in relationships, emphasizing the importance of connection and understanding. The conversation touches on the dynamics of human relationships, the nature of solitude, and the emotional struggles that accompany them.

Loneliness and Connection July 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex feelings of loneliness and connection, discussing how modern technology, like the internet, can both alleviate and exacerbate feelings of isolation. The conversation delves into statistics about loneliness among older adults and personal anecdotes about forming connections through gaming and other means. Listeners share their experiences and thoughts on loneliness, revealing the emotional struggles that come with feeling isolated, even in the presence of others. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the need for genuine connections.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Isolation and Connection January 7, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of isolation and connection, drawing on philosophical and psychological insights. He discusses how moments of isolation can lead to profound self-discovery and a deeper understanding of one’s connection to the universe. Through engaging conversations with callers, the episode delves into personal experiences of loneliness, the search for meaning, and the importance of human connection. The dialogue touches on themes of existentialism, spirituality, and the therapeutic power of being heard and understood.

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression September 11, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of anger, aggression, and passive-aggressive behavior. He discusses how these traits manifest in relationships and society, particularly in the context of political and personal interactions. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in healthy ways, while also addressing the impact of passive-aggressive behavior on relationships. He provides insights into how to confront such behaviors constructively and the significance of trust in fostering meaningful connections. The episode also touches on the themes of fear and suffering, particularly in light of current events.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 7, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrew Tatarski, Deborah Hillman, Dr. Harold Urschel, Emily Anthes, Roberta Maria Atzi

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors. He discusses how feelings of loneliness and disconnection can lead individuals to seek solace in various forms of dependency, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists and examines the psychological roots of addiction, including the ‘refugee syndrome’ and the impact of societal expectations on men’s relationships with addiction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own behaviors and consider the underlying emotional needs that may drive them.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

New Thinking for a Positive Life January 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanellitini explore the importance of new thinking as we enter a new year. They discuss the concept of ‘Desiderata’ by Max Ehrmann, reflecting on its timeless wisdom about peace, self-acceptance, and the pursuit of happiness. The hosts delve into various themes such as the impact of comparison, the significance of being true to oneself, and the balance between ambition and contentment. They encourage listeners to embrace their uniqueness and find joy in their achievements while navigating the complexities of life.