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Navigating Relationships and Mental Health June 3, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of mental health and addiction. He explores the impact of parental relationships on children’s emotional development, the effects of frequent relocations on youth, and the challenges posed by depression within families. DeMille emphasizes the importance of communication and connection in relationships, especially when dealing with issues like addiction and mental health. He also highlights the need for parents to model healthy relationships for their children. The episode includes listener calls that delve into personal experiences and insights on these topics.

New Strategies for Dealing with Verbal Abuse July 10, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various strategies for dealing with verbal abuse in relationships. He explores natural responses to attack, such as running away, counterattacking, freezing, and adopting a ‘pet dog’ approach. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying issues behind aggressive behavior and suggests facing the storm head-on rather than retreating or responding with anger. He encourages listeners to recognize the illness behind the rage and to maintain their presence during confrontations. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult reactions to conflict.

Intimacy and Connection January 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and connection in relationships. He addresses common questions about how close is too close and the nature of real intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and psychological insights, he discusses the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the fear of abandonment, and the importance of being genuine in emotional connections. Armand emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in fostering intimacy, while also acknowledging the challenges that arise from past traumas. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and to seek deeper connections with others.

Powerlessness and Helplessness November 8, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of powerlessness and helplessness, particularly in the context of political and personal struggles. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore how feelings of powerlessness can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety and social phobia. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling out of control and the importance of recognizing one’s rights and entitlements. They emphasize that while powerlessness is a common human experience, acknowledging it can lead to personal growth and healing.

Male Depression October 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw delve into the complexities of male depression, exploring how societal expectations and gender roles contribute to the underreporting and misunderstanding of this mental health issue. They discuss the differences in how men and women experience depression, the impact of hormones, and the tendency for men to mask their feelings through anger or substance abuse. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing male depression, as well as the potential benefits of therapy and medication. The episode aims to raise awareness and encourage men to seek help for their mental health struggles.

Hypochondriasis and Panic Attacks July 13, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw delve into the psychological aspects of hypochondriasis and panic attacks. They discuss how panic attacks can arise unexpectedly, often leading to overwhelming fear and anxiety. The conversation explores the psychological roots of these conditions, including the impact of childhood trauma and genetic predispositions. They also touch on the societal implications of hypochondriasis, particularly how modern medical practices may inadvertently reinforce these fears. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding the mind-body connection and offers insights into managing anxiety and panic disorders.

Punishment and the Fear of Being Punished June 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between punishment and the psychological fears that stem from childhood experiences. He discusses how individuals often carry a sense of impending punishment throughout their lives, affecting their mental health and relationships. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal stories that illustrate how fears of abandonment, control, and self-worth are intertwined with past traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these fears to lead a more positively minded life.

Impulses and Their Impact April 12, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of impulse control, particularly in relation to childhood experiences. They explore how rough childhoods can lead to pathological adaptations, affecting emotional and cognitive development. The hosts discuss various forms of impulse control issues, including stealing, self-mutilation, and eating disorders, emphasizing that neglect and trauma can significantly impact one’s ability to manage impulses. Through engaging metaphors and scientific insights, they illustrate the critical connection between early experiences and later behaviors, aiming to foster understanding and empathy for those struggling with impulse control.

Compensation and Its Consequences Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of compensation in psychology, exploring how individuals often use various strategies to cope with feelings of inadequacy and pain. He examines the relationship between smoking, addiction, and emotional regulation, emphasizing the importance of confronting underlying issues rather than merely masking them. Through engaging discussions with guests, the episode delves into personal experiences of pain, loneliness, and the quest for acceptance. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own compensatory behaviors and the impact these have on their lives.

Walking 2.2 Miles in 102 Degree Weather Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Diane Boyden Pesso, Ilana Rubenfeld, Portia Franklin

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele shares a memorable experience from a conference at Princeton University where he was tasked with getting 2,000 attendees to walk 2.2 miles in scorching heat. He discusses the importance of childhood needs in adult relationships and introduces his guest, Portia Franklin, a psychotherapist specializing in psychomotor therapy. Together, they explore the five basic childhood needs: place, support, nurturance, protection, and loving limits, and how unmet needs can manifest in adult life. The conversation delves into the significance of emotional movement and the role of ideal parents in healing past wounds.