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Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

Childhood Trauma August 13, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of childhood trauma with expert Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the impact of early traumatic experiences on children’s emotional development and behavior, drawing parallels between childhood trauma and adult responses to stress. Linda Vanella Vanella shares insights from her work with soldiers suffering from PTSD and emphasizes the importance of caregiver involvement in healing. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing and expressing feelings, as well as the role of supportive relationships in overcoming trauma. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the lasting effects of childhood trauma.

Violence and Its Roots June 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of violence, examining its origins and manifestations in both personal and societal contexts. He discusses the impact of childhood experiences, the influence of video games, and the biochemical factors that contribute to violent behavior. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal stories of witnessing violence and the lasting effects it has on individuals. The episode aims to foster understanding and reflection on the nature of violence, encouraging listeners to confront their own feelings and experiences related to aggression.

Fears and Advice November 6, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fear and the often unsolicited advice people give. He engages with callers about their personal fears, ranging from phobias to deeper psychological issues rooted in childhood experiences. The discussion also delves into the dynamics of family relationships, particularly the challenges of dealing with overbearing advice from parents and loved ones. Through heartfelt conversations, listeners reflect on their own fears and the impact of advice on their lives, revealing the intricate connections between fear, love, and personal growth.

Anxiety, Excitement, and Fear March 20, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of anxiety, excitement, and fear, particularly focusing on phobias. He discusses the concept of secondary gain associated with phobias, explaining how they can serve as a means of avoiding responsibilities. The episode delves into various types of phobias, including agoraphobia and simple phobias, and highlights the psychological mechanisms behind them. Armand also touches on obsessive-compulsive disorders and post-traumatic stress disorder, emphasizing the importance of understanding these conditions to lead a healthier life. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, listeners gain a deeper understanding of how anxiety disorders manifest and can be addressed.

Defense Mechanisms and Personal Growth January 18, 2012

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla explore the various defense mechanisms people use to cope with anxiety and stress. They discuss how these psychological tools can protect us from emotional pain but can also lead to unhealthy habits if relied upon too heavily. The conversation delves into specific mechanisms such as denial, repression, and dissociation, illustrating their impact on personal relationships and self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own defense strategies and consider healthier alternatives for emotional well-being.

Superstition and Luck January 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of superstition and luck, exploring their impact on our lives and beliefs. He shares personal anecdotes and insights from guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla, about how superstitions shape our perceptions and behaviors. The conversation delves into the origins of superstitions, the psychological aspects of magical thinking, and the importance of understanding our beliefs. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own superstitions and how they influence their lives, ultimately seeking a balance between belief and reality.

Money, Parenting, and Nature vs. Nurture September 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationship between money, happiness, and parenting. He explores research suggesting that happiness increases with income up to $75,000, while also addressing the challenges parents face in nurturing their children. Joined by guest Stephanie D’Ambra, they delve into the nature versus nurture debate, examining how genetic predispositions and environmental factors shape behavior and personality. The conversation highlights the struggles of parenting, the impact of genetics on children’s outcomes, and the resilience some children exhibit despite difficult circumstances. Tune in for insights on parenting, emotional well-being, and the interplay of nature and nurture.

Feeling Trapped September 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling trapped, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and adult relationships. He discusses the impact of caretaking roles assumed by children in dysfunctional families, especially those with mentally ill parents. Through various callers’ stories, the show delves into the psychological complexities of growing up in such environments, the challenges of adult life, and the importance of recognizing and addressing past traumas. Armand emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding one’s own needs while navigating relationships and responsibilities.

Trust and Trustworthiness June 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of trust and trustworthiness. He discusses the psychological need to trust others and the challenges of being seen as trustworthy. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights how trust can be manipulated and the importance of integrity in relationships. Armand also addresses the difficulties faced by individuals who struggle with trust due to past experiences and societal influences. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own trust issues and the qualities that make someone trustworthy.