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Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Self-Love and Narcissism March 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Frank Yeomans

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Frank Yeoman explore the complex themes of self-love, narcissism, and the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of self-worth. They discuss the distinction between healthy and unhealthy narcissism, the impact of childhood experiences on self-image, and the challenges of forming genuine relationships. Through poetry and personal anecdotes, they delve into the psychological underpinnings of narcissism, its manifestations in behavior, and the implications for mental health. The conversation also touches on the cultural obsession with celebrity and the dangers of idealization.

Valentine’s Day Insights on Love and Containment February 14, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the complexities of love, attachment, and the psychological need for containment in relationships. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and the importance of balance between closeness and independence. The conversation delves into the biochemical aspects of love, particularly the role of phenylethylamine (PEA) in fostering emotional connections. The hosts emphasize that separation can rejuvenate relationships, allowing partners to grow individually before reuniting. This Valentine’s Day, they encourage listeners to reflect on their own needs for containment and growth within their romantic connections.

End Deposit of Mind December 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ostracism, drawing parallels between personal experiences and societal behaviors. He reflects on the historical context of ostracism in ancient Greece and its implications in modern society. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores how ostracism affects individuals, particularly in relation to race, gender, and personal identity. DeMille emphasizes the emotional pain caused by exclusion and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings in ourselves and others.

Secrets June 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of secrets and their impact on mental health. He highlights the importance of revealing secrets to alleviate emotional burdens, sharing insights from psychology and personal stories. The conversation touches on how secrets can affect relationships and individual well-being, particularly in the context of trauma and personal experiences. Armand encourages listeners to call in and share their secrets, emphasizing the healing power of openness and honesty.

Resiliency and Mental Health May 2, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kevin O'Donoghue

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of resiliency and why some individuals bounce back from trauma while others struggle. He discusses various factors influencing resilience, including genetics, upbringing, and mental health. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of sensitivity, emotional responses, and the impact of familial relationships on resilience. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s emotional responses and the role of supportive relationships in overcoming adversity.

Stealth Saboteur April 25, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘stealth saboteur,’ which he identifies as hidden anger that can undermine our well-being and relationships. Through various examples, he illustrates how unexpressed anger affects interactions with friends, clients, and even healthcare providers. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and communicate openly about anger, both with themselves and others. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions that drive behaviors and the need for honest dialogue in relationships. The episode includes listener calls discussing personal experiences with anger and communication.

Sibling Rivalry November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of sibling rivalry, a common issue in families that can lead to long-lasting psychological effects. He discusses the roots of competition among siblings, drawing parallels with nature and highlighting how competition for limited resources, such as parental attention and love, can manifest in hostility. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand delves into how sibling rivalry can develop into deeper issues, affecting relationships well into adulthood. He also offers insights on how parents can better manage these dynamics to foster healthier sibling relationships.

Inner Voices and Obsessive Compulsions Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the complexities of inner voices and their impact on our lives. They discuss the nature of inner wisdom, the role of obsessive-compulsive disorders, and the influence of early childhood experiences on our mental health. The conversation delves into various types of obsessions, including scrupulosity, and how these voices can both protect and hinder us. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own inner dialogues and the hidden compulsions that shape their behaviors.

Political Frustration Undated

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of political frustration and the feelings of powerlessness that many experience in the face of government actions they disagree with. He discusses the cyclical nature of rebellion and complacency, emphasizing how societal events can reignite the spirit of dissent. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their frustrations and the connections to their childhood experiences. He highlights the importance of community and support in overcoming feelings of isolation and despair, ultimately urging individuals to find their voice and fight against injustices.