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Dignity and Self-Respect September 18, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Majid Ali

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of dignity and its relationship with self-respect. He discusses how individuals often abdicate their dignity through justifications and denial, particularly in the context of cheating and exploitation. Through anecdotes and reflections, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s self-worth and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. The conversation also touches on the societal pressures that affect dignity, particularly in relation to health issues like diabetes and the emotional struggles faced by individuals. Ultimately, Armand encourages listeners to confront their realities and restore their sense of dignity.

Understanding Anxiety, Excitement, and Fear March 19, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. William Astwood

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Dr. William Astwood delve into the complexities of anxiety, excitement, and fear. They explore the physiological responses associated with these emotions, discussing how they can often feel overwhelming and confusing. The hosts aim to demystify these experiences, providing insights into the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems and how they relate to our emotional states. With over 25 years of experience in mental health, they share practical knowledge to help listeners gain better control over their emotions and understand the underlying mechanisms of anxiety disorders.

Introspection and Relationships October 10, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the importance of introspection in understanding oneself and improving relationships. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of love and connection, highlighting the need for validation, safety, and encouragement from parents. The conversation delves into the patterns we repeat in adult relationships based on these early experiences, emphasizing the significance of self-awareness in breaking negative cycles. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship dynamics and consider how their past influences their present interactions.

Worrying: Understanding the Roots and Effects April 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of worrying, its origins, and its impact on our lives. He discusses how worrying can stem from deep-seated fears of abandonment and rejection, often rooted in childhood experiences. DeMille highlights the maladaptive schemas that contribute to a person’s tendency to worry and the psychological traps that can ensnare individuals. He emphasizes that while concern can be healthy, excessive worry is unproductive and can hinder problem-solving abilities. The episode encourages listeners to understand their worries and find healthier ways to cope.

Interpreting Dreams and Human Relationships March 14, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of sexuality and familial connections. He discusses how early experiences with parents can shape adult behavior, especially in romantic contexts. The conversation delves into the motivations behind sexual encounters, the search for nurturing figures, and the impact of trauma on intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the deeper meanings behind their relationships and desires.

Fear of Close Relationships October 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the reasons behind people’s fear of forming close relationships. He discusses how past experiences and childhood conditioning can lead to a reluctance to love and connect with others. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these fears and understanding that love should not be equated with pain or control. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and to seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships. The episode also touches on the dynamics of control in relationships and the role of victimhood in emotional connections.

Bringing You Ideas for a Positively Minded Life September 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of emotional variation in life and how our childhood experiences shape our coping strategies. He explores various defense mechanisms such as repression, regression, and dissociation, emphasizing how these adaptations can lead to emotional struggles in adulthood. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own emotional responses and the impact of societal pressures on their mental well-being. The program also touches on the significance of communication in relationships, particularly in the age of text messaging, and how it can affect emotional connections.

Ignoring People and Being Ignored August 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of being ignored and the act of ignoring others. He discusses how these behaviors can stem from childhood experiences and societal expectations, with insights on passive-aggressive tendencies and the need for attention. Through various anecdotes and examples, including the challenges faced in medical settings and personal relationships, the conversation delves into the emotional impact of feeling invisible. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with being ignored and the importance of communication in relationships.

Radical Thinking, The Null Hypothesis June 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kenny Baron, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘null hypothesis’ in relationships, suggesting that people often choose partners based on their ‘false selves’ rather than their true identities. He discusses how societal pressures and childhood experiences shape our adaptive selves, leading individuals to present curated versions of themselves to their partners. Through a series of engaging dialogues with guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Sherri Siegel, the show delves into the complexities of love, acceptance, and the challenges of revealing one’s true self in intimate relationships.

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.