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Doomsday Predictions and Anxiety January 5, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological implications of anxiety and the impact of temperament on human behavior. He explores the concept of doomsday predictions, particularly the fears surrounding the year 2012, and how these fears can manifest in anxiety disorders. Drawing on studies by psychologist Jerome Kagan, Armand examines how early temperament influences adult anxiety levels. The conversation also touches on the physiological aspects of anxiety, the role of the amygdala, and the importance of nurturing in childhood development. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with anxiety and the roots of their fears.

Memory, Love, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves March 5, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of memory and its profound impact on our understanding of love. He discusses how memories can be distorted over time, leading to misconceptions about past experiences and relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing how our memories shape our definitions of love and connection. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of memory recall, emphasizing that our recollections may not always be accurate and can influence our present relationships in unexpected ways.

Abnormality and Normalcy June 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of abnormality and normalcy, particularly in the context of human behavior and societal expectations. He discusses how perceptions of what is ‘normal’ can vary greatly, influenced by cultural norms and individual experiences. The conversation delves into topics such as paraphilias, maladaptivity, and the pressures of conforming to societal standards. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own definitions of normalcy and the impact of secrets and personal struggles on their sense of self. The episode invites callers to share their thoughts and experiences, fostering a dialogue about the complexities of human behavior.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

A Nation of Wimps June 11, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Hara Estroff Marano

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Hara Estroff Marano, author of ‘A Nation of Wimps’, about the challenges of modern parenting. They discuss how overprotective parenting styles are leading to a generation of children who struggle with independence and resilience. Marano highlights the psychological breakdowns occurring among college students and the societal pressures that contribute to this trend. The conversation emphasizes the importance of allowing children to experience failure and develop coping skills, as well as the need for parents to step back and let their kids play freely. Ultimately, they explore how the anxiety of parents can hinder their children’s development into autonomous adults.

Understanding the Intensely Private Person March 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intensely private individuals, particularly children, who often retreat into their own worlds to avoid emotional overwhelm. He discusses how societal pressures and family dynamics can contribute to this intense privacy, leading to a lack of close relationships and emotional detachment. Armand highlights the importance of recognizing these traits in oneself and others, emphasizing that while privacy can foster creativity, it can also lead to social phobia and loneliness. The episode encourages listeners to understand and support those who may struggle with intense privacy.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder August 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), exploring its origins, symptoms, and the societal implications surrounding its diagnosis. He delves into the historical context of PTSD, particularly in relation to war and trauma, and examines how different individuals experience and process trauma. The conversation highlights the challenges of distinguishing between genuine PTSD and other emotional disturbances, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma’s effects on mental health. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the broader implications of trauma in society.

Anorexia: Understanding the Control Issue January 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests delve into the complexities of anorexia, exploring its roots in anxiety and the desire for control. They discuss how societal pressures and family expectations contribute to the development of this eating disorder, which is often mischaracterized as merely a food issue. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of anorexia, including the denial of the illness and the emotional turmoil that accompanies it. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding anorexia as a rebellion against adulthood and the need for a supportive environment to facilitate recovery.

Doubting People January 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of doubters—individuals who live with suspicion and fear of losing everything. He discusses how childhood experiences shape their skepticism and the impact of lacking trust in themselves and others. DeMille highlights the paradox of doubters seeking security while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and gently supporting these individuals, as they often yearn for connection but are terrified of being overwhelmed. The episode delves into the complexities of doubt, trust, and the human experience.

Holiday Reflections December 13, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of the holiday season, discussing themes of gift-giving, personal expectations, and the emotional weight that often accompanies this time of year. He delves into the psychological factors that contribute to feelings of Scrooginess, particularly the impact of childhood experiences on adult perceptions of the holidays. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own holiday experiences and the motivations behind their feelings, ultimately promoting a deeper understanding of self during this festive yet challenging time.