Keyword: childhood abuse

Education for Psychologists: The Role of the Unconscious August 8, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone discuss the unconscious mind’s role in shaping our thoughts and behaviors. They explore concepts from Freud, including the id, ego, and superego, and how these elements interact within our psyche. The hosts share listener responses about the significance of Armand’s voice, highlighting themes of safety, kindness, and understanding. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the unconscious influences that affect our lives, as well as the therapeutic process of uncovering these hidden aspects of our minds.

Exploring the Unconscious Mind August 7, 2012

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the unconscious mind and its profound influence on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Joined by co-producer Lisa Arnone, they discuss how unconscious memories and instincts shape our reactions and preferences, often without our awareness. Through various examples, they explore how past experiences, both positive and negative, are stored in the unconscious and affect our daily lives. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these hidden aspects of our psyche to foster personal growth and emotional healing.

Making a Difference November 22, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the profound impact of radio on people’s lives, sharing personal anecdotes and listener stories that highlight the emotional connections formed through radio. He discusses how radio serves as a comforting presence, especially for those with absent fathers, and invites listeners to share their own memories. The conversation touches on the unique qualities of radio that allow for imagination and intimacy, contrasting it with visual media like television. Through heartfelt interactions, DeMille emphasizes the significance of radio in shaping identities and fostering community.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Evolution of Emotions July 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of emotions and their impact on human behavior. He discusses how childhood emotions can persist into adulthood, examining various emotional states such as fear, anger, and anxiety. Drawing on Charles Darwin’s research, he highlights the evolutionary significance of emotions and their expressions. The conversation delves into the complexities of emotional development, the role of social interactions, and the importance of understanding emotional changes over time. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and support in navigating emotional challenges throughout life.

Capgras Syndrome and Depersonalization April 19, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jeffrey Abugel, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses Capgras Syndrome, a condition where individuals believe their loved ones are imposters. Joined by Jeffrey Abugel, who shares his experiences with depersonalization disorder, they explore the psychological implications of feeling disconnected from oneself and reality. The conversation delves into the symptoms, causes, and potential treatments for these complex disorders, emphasizing the emotional struggles faced by those affected. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these conditions and offers hope for recovery through therapy and medication.

Alter Selves and Psychological Functioning March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of alter selves and their impact on psychological functioning, particularly in relation to addiction and behavior disorders. He discusses how individuals often dissociate from their true selves in response to stress, trauma, or emotional challenges, creating alternate personalities that manage these experiences. Through anecdotes and insights from his extensive experience in psychotherapy, DeMille encourages listeners to recognize and befriend these alter personalities rather than criticize them. This approach may lead to better self-understanding and healing.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Triangulation in Family Dynamics December 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of triangulation within family dynamics, particularly how children often become caught between parental conflicts. He discusses the psychological implications of this behavior, including the roles of good and bad parents, and how these dynamics can affect adult relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal experiences of triangulation, the challenges of familial loyalty, and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these patterns. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and self-reflection to break free from these cycles.

Money, Parenting, and Nature vs. Nurture September 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationship between money, happiness, and parenting. He explores research suggesting that happiness increases with income up to $75,000, while also addressing the challenges parents face in nurturing their children. Joined by guest Stephanie D’Ambra, they delve into the nature versus nurture debate, examining how genetic predispositions and environmental factors shape behavior and personality. The conversation highlights the struggles of parenting, the impact of genetics on children’s outcomes, and the resilience some children exhibit despite difficult circumstances. Tune in for insights on parenting, emotional well-being, and the interplay of nature and nurture.