The Positive Mind

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Spring Smells and Memories April 8, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound connection between smell and memory, particularly as spring arrives. He discusses how scents can evoke powerful memories and emotions, from childhood experiences to the smells associated with loved ones. The conversation delves into the biological aspects of smell, including pheromones and their role in attraction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own scent memories and the meanings behind them, with callers sharing their personal stories about the scents that have shaped their lives.

April Fool’s Day and Resilience April 1, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ed Zara
Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of humor, pain, and resilience, particularly in the context of April Fool’s Day. He discusses the impact of cognitive dissonance, the importance of trustworthiness in fostering resilience, and the challenges faced by children and adults dealing with trauma. Guest Ed Zara shares insights on helping children recover and build resilience through honest relationships. The conversation delves into the deeper emotional struggles individuals face and the significance of being present and trustworthy in the healing process.

ADHD Exploration September 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella
Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests discuss Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), exploring its symptoms, impacts on children and adults, and the importance of understanding and compassion in treatment. The conversation delves into personal experiences with ADHD, the challenges it presents in relationships and daily life, and the potential for creative genius stemming from this condition. The guests share insights on how to support those affected by ADHD, emphasizing the need for patience and emotional security. The episode aims to shed light on the complexities of ADHD and encourage open dialogue about mental health.

Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella
Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Betrayal January 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex issue of betrayal, focusing on self-betrayal and its roots in childhood. He discusses how early experiences with love and power shape our understanding of relationships and the choices we make as adults. Through conversations with guests, the episode delves into the emotional turmoil that arises from feeling betrayed by others and oneself. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing our authentic selves and the impact of societal expectations on our emotional well-being.

Rejection September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of rejection and its impact on our lives. He explores how rejection is often perceived as a negative experience, leading to feelings of worthlessness and disappointment. However, he argues that rejection is not an emotion but a perception of someone’s behavior. DeMille encourages listeners to examine their feelings and reactions to rejection, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. He also delves into the roots of creativity and how it can be stifled by societal expectations, urging listeners to embrace their creative spirit as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.

Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

What’s the Truth? September 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of truth and storytelling, discussing how our narratives shape our perceptions and relationships. He delves into the complexities of personal stories, the roles of listeners and storytellers, and the impact of societal expectations on our lives. Joined by guests Lisa Arnone and John Valerio, they reflect on the stories we tell ourselves and others, the anxiety stemming from an insensitive world, and the importance of genuine connections. The conversation emphasizes that while stories can provide comfort, they can also obscure reality, urging listeners to recognize the difference between their narratives and the truth.

Psychology for Therapists Part 12: Magical Thinking and the Double Bind September 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Brian Jefferson, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Ilana Rubenfeld, Johnna Valerio
Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of magical thinking and the double bind, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and mental health. He discusses how these psychological phenomena can shape our perceptions and behaviors, often leading to confusion and anxiety. Through examples and personal anecdotes, Armand illustrates how individuals navigate these complex emotional landscapes, emphasizing the importance of understanding these dynamics for therapists and their clients. The conversation also touches on the role of perception and communication in relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences.