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New Year Reflections January 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes the new year with reflections on personal change and growth. He discusses the significance of New Year’s resolutions and the importance of intention in making meaningful changes in one’s personality. Armand encourages listeners to consider what aspects of themselves they would like to improve, whether it’s being less angry, more organized, or more generous. He emphasizes that every change comes with a corresponding loss and challenges listeners to confront their fears and dependencies. Through anecdotes and insights, he inspires a journey of self-discovery and transformation as the year begins.

Understanding Stress and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality November 13, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of stress and how it manifests in our lives, particularly through obsessive-compulsive behaviors. He differentiates between obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), highlighting the emotional turmoil and perfectionism that often accompany these conditions. Armand discusses the impact of internal and external stressors, the compulsive behaviors that arise from anxiety, and the challenges faced by individuals with OCPD in their relationships and decision-making processes. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster better mental health and interpersonal connections.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

Breaking the Habit of Underachievement Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Kenneth Christian

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Kenneth Christian, author of ‘Your Own Worst Enemy,’ about the self-limiting belief systems that lead to underachievement. They explore the reasons why people cling to ineffective rituals and the importance of finding order in one’s life as a tool for empowerment. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, they discuss how to break free from habits that hinder personal growth and fulfillment. The conversation delves into the balance between spontaneity and organization, the value of self-acceptance, and the necessity of facing uncomfortable emotions to achieve true success.