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Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Feeling Trapped September 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling trapped, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and adult relationships. He discusses the impact of caretaking roles assumed by children in dysfunctional families, especially those with mentally ill parents. Through various callers’ stories, the show delves into the psychological complexities of growing up in such environments, the challenges of adult life, and the importance of recognizing and addressing past traumas. Armand emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding one’s own needs while navigating relationships and responsibilities.

Power Dynamics November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the multifaceted nature of power, discussing its various forms, including situational, directional, and fear-based power. He delves into the psychological implications of power struggles, particularly within familial and societal contexts. The conversation highlights how power dynamics can manifest in relationships, especially in childhood experiences, and the long-term effects they can have on individuals. Armand also addresses the darker aspects of power, including sadistic tendencies and the impact of powerlessness on behavior. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.