The Positive Mind

Keyword: Buddhist philosophy

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Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Isolation and Connection January 7, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of isolation and connection, drawing on philosophical and psychological insights. He discusses how moments of isolation can lead to profound self-discovery and a deeper understanding of one’s connection to the universe. Through engaging conversations with callers, the episode delves into personal experiences of loneliness, the search for meaning, and the importance of human connection. The dialogue touches on themes of existentialism, spirituality, and the therapeutic power of being heard and understood.

Focusing and Listening with Dr. Eugene Gendlin July 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Eugene Gendlin
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Eugene Gendlin, the creator of the Focusing technique, which emphasizes the importance of tuning into bodily sensations to gain deeper insights into our emotions and experiences. Gendlin explains how Focusing allows individuals to connect with their authentic selves by paying attention to the physical sensations in their bodies. The conversation also explores the concept of listening, highlighting the significance of being present and empathetic when others express their feelings. Gendlin shares practical insights on how to navigate emotions and the critic within us, ultimately guiding listeners toward a more positive and self-aware life.

Expectations and Their Impact January 24, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of expectations and their effects on our emotional well-being. He explains how unmet expectations can lead to stronger negative feelings compared to the positive feelings derived from fulfilled expectations. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores the importance of adaptability and resilience in managing expectations. The discussion also touches on the psychological implications of expectations in relationships and personal achievements, emphasizing the need to balance hope with realistic outcomes.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Revenge and Its Consequences July 6, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Stephanie D’Ambra delve into the complex topic of revenge. They explore its origins, psychological implications, and societal consequences, questioning whether seeking vengeance truly brings satisfaction or merely perpetuates unhappiness. Through various examples, including historical references and personal anecdotes, they highlight the paradox of revenge, where those who seek it often end up feeling worse. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with revenge and the potential for healing through forgiveness and understanding rather than retaliation.

Exploring the Purpose of Depression March 4, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex relationship between depression and creativity, drawing on historical figures like Charles Darwin to illustrate how mental struggles can lead to profound insights. He discusses the evolutionary perspective on depression, suggesting it may serve a purpose in protecting individuals from greater pain. The episode also explores the role of rumination in the creative process and how accepting depression as a normal part of life can lead to personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the potential benefits of their struggles.

Interview with Dr. Irvin Yalom March 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Irvin Yalom
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychiatrist and author Dr. Irvin Yalom about the intricacies of psychotherapy, particularly focusing on the concepts of transference and countertransference in therapeutic relationships. They discuss the impact of death anxiety on patients and how facing mortality can lead to a more authentic life. Dr. Yalom shares insights from his books, including ‘Love’s Executioner’ and ‘When Nietzsche Wept,’ emphasizing the importance of empathy and genuine connection in therapy. The conversation also touches on the portrayal of therapy in media and the challenges therapists face in maintaining authenticity.

Pi Day and the Wonders of Albert Einstein March 14, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti
Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti celebrate Pi Day, discussing its significance as both a mathematical constant and the birthday of Albert Einstein. They explore Einstein’s contributions to science, particularly his theory of relativity, and delve into the philosophical implications of his work. The conversation touches on the nature of time, gravity, and the quest for a unified field theory, emphasizing the interconnectedness of all things in the universe. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the wonders of mathematics and the profound insights of Einstein.

Exploring Free Will and Determinism January 10, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin
Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati delve into the complex concepts of free will and determinism. They discuss the philosophical implications of choice, the influence of genetics and environment on our decisions, and the paradox of feeling in control while being affected by external factors. The conversation touches on addiction, societal expectations, and the brain’s predictive capabilities regarding future events. Through engaging dialogue, they challenge listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of choice and responsibility in life.