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Inheritance Neurosis September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological impacts of wealth and inheritance, particularly focusing on the concept of ‘inheritance neurosis.’ Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Tripp Evans, they explore how the anticipation of receiving an inheritance can lead to feelings of entitlement, lack of motivation, and emotional deprivation among heirs. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships affected by wealth, the societal perceptions of the rich, and the emotional struggles faced by those who grow up in affluent families. The hosts emphasize the importance of fostering independence and self-worth in children, regardless of their financial background.

Understanding Punishment September 12, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta explore the complex nature of punishment, examining its role in society and individual psychology. They discuss various forms of punishment, from legal consequences to parental discipline, and delve into the motivations behind our need for limits and structure. The conversation highlights the fine line between constructive and destructive punishment, emphasizing how love and attention can be intertwined with punitive measures. Through anecdotes and reflections, they invite listeners to consider the implications of punishment in their own lives and relationships.

Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Mindset April 24, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of mindset with Dr. Carol Dweck, author of the influential book ‘Mindset’. They explore the differences between fixed and growth mindsets, particularly in relation to personal development, relationships, and parenting. Dweck explains how a fixed mindset can lead to a fragile ego and avoidance of challenges, while a growth mindset encourages resilience and learning from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of these mindsets in children, relationships, and even societal issues like bullying. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a growth mindset for a more fulfilling and adaptable life.

Chemistry of Love February 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate chemistry of relationships, emphasizing how the emotional states of partners can influence one another. He discusses the challenges of maintaining personal well-being when a loved one is struggling and questions whether it’s possible to remain unaffected by a partner’s mood. Through various examples, including the dynamics of family relationships and the impact of addiction, Armand invites listeners to reflect on their experiences and share their thoughts. The show emphasizes the importance of self-care and the need for support systems, like therapy and support groups, to navigate these complex emotional landscapes.

Grandparenting Insights August 10, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine, David Travland, Keith, Sante

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate dynamics of grandparenting, discussing how relationships between grandparents and grandchildren can shape family dynamics. He highlights the importance of understanding the emotional impact of grandparents on their grandchildren, sharing anecdotes and inviting listeners to share their own experiences. The conversation delves into the challenges and joys of grandparenting, emphasizing the need for better resources and understanding in this often overlooked area of family psychology.

Fathers and Their Relationships August 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and psychiatrist Kent Robertshaw delve into the complexities of fatherhood and the often enigmatic relationships between fathers and their children. They explore societal perceptions of fathers, the emotional challenges they face, and the impact of these dynamics on children’s development. The discussion highlights the importance of fathers in nurturing self-esteem and emotional well-being, while also addressing the struggles many fathers encounter as they navigate their roles. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and connection within these relationships, particularly as children transition into adolescence.

Fathers and Their Impact August 3, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Scott Baum

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with clinical psychologist Dr. Scott Baum to explore the often overlooked role of fathers in psychological development. They discuss the concept of fathers as the ‘dark matter’ of the psychic universe, emphasizing how their presence or absence significantly influences children’s lives. The conversation delves into the complexities of father-son relationships, the impact of societal expectations on male sensitivity, and the emotional struggles that arise from familial dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and psychological insights, they aim to shed light on the importance of nurturing father figures and the lasting effects of paternal relationships.

Touch and Its Importance June 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Neil Shatka, Jean Liedloff, Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the critical role of touch in human development and communication. They discuss the historical context of touch, its significance in various cultures, and the psychological implications of touch deprivation. The hosts highlight research indicating that touch is essential for emotional and physical health, particularly in infants. They also address societal taboos surrounding touch, especially between genders, and the consequences of these prohibitions. The conversation delves into how touch can heal, comfort, and connect individuals, emphasizing its importance in fostering relationships and well-being.

Stealth Saboteur April 25, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘stealth saboteur,’ which he identifies as hidden anger that can undermine our well-being and relationships. Through various examples, he illustrates how unexpressed anger affects interactions with friends, clients, and even healthcare providers. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and communicate openly about anger, both with themselves and others. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying emotions that drive behaviors and the need for honest dialogue in relationships. The episode includes listener calls discussing personal experiences with anger and communication.