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Bonding and Therapy July 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of bonding in therapy and relationships, emphasizing the importance of oxytocin in fostering connections. He explores why individuals may leave therapy prematurely, citing reasons such as anger towards the therapist, financial constraints, and a lack of perceived progress. DeMille highlights the significance of trust and emotional connection in therapeutic settings, arguing that effective therapy often hinges on the bond between therapist and client. He also touches on the biological aspects of bonding, including the roles of oxytocin and prolactin in human relationships, and how these hormones influence feelings of love and attachment.

Bitterness and Relationships June 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of bitterness and its impact on relationships. He discusses the American Psychiatric Association’s interest in ‘bitterness syndrome’ and examines how hormonal responses, particularly prolactin, can affect intimacy and connection between partners. Through various anecdotes and discussions with callers, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the biological and emotional factors that contribute to relationship challenges. Armand encourages listeners to fight for their relationships and to seek deeper connections, despite the societal and biological pressures that may lead to disconnection.

Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.

Sadomasochism and the Mind December 30, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ensorara, Sarah

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of mind possession and the psychological dynamics of sadomasochistic relationships. He discusses how individuals may relinquish control of their minds due to peer pressure, rewards, and emotional needs. Through various examples, including the influence of colors and social bonding, Armand delves into the chemical and emotional factors that drive people to seek connection and validation. The conversation also touches on the impact of personal history and the quest for belonging, highlighting the intricate relationship between mind, emotion, and social interaction.

Memory and Love September 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Patti

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Patti explore the intricate relationship between memory and love. They discuss recent scientific discoveries about how migrating birds perceive the Earth’s magnetic field, drawing parallels to human emotional connections. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the role of early childhood memories, and the mysterious factors that influence whom we love. With insights into neurobiology and psychology, they challenge traditional theories of attraction and bonding, emphasizing that many elements of love remain elusive and unexplainable. The episode invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences of love and memory.

Valentine’s Day Insights on Love and Containment February 14, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the complexities of love, attachment, and the psychological need for containment in relationships. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and the importance of balance between closeness and independence. The conversation delves into the biochemical aspects of love, particularly the role of phenylethylamine (PEA) in fostering emotional connections. The hosts emphasize that separation can rejuvenate relationships, allowing partners to grow individually before reuniting. This Valentine’s Day, they encourage listeners to reflect on their own needs for containment and growth within their romantic connections.

Creating a Feeling of Home September 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of creating a welcoming environment that fosters connection and belonging. He emphasizes the significance of greeting loved ones when they arrive home and encourages listeners to make everyone feel important. Armand shares practical tips for entertaining, such as bringing thoughtful gifts and the value of outdoor meals. He also addresses the challenges of family dynamics, the importance of acknowledging bad moods, and the need to let go of grudges. Throughout the conversation, he highlights the essence of family bonds and the joy of being present with one another.

Communication Beyond Words June 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the various forms of non-verbal communication, emphasizing the importance of touch and somatic expression. He discusses how body language, personal space, and gestures convey emotions and intentions without the need for words. The episode highlights the significance of touch in human relationships and its impact on emotional well-being, particularly in children and the elderly. Armand also addresses the complexities of touch in different cultural contexts and the confusion surrounding it in modern society. Listeners are encouraged to be mindful of their own communication styles and the messages they send through non-verbal cues.

Touch and Its Importance June 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Neil Shatka, Jean Liedloff, Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the critical role of touch in human development and communication. They discuss the historical context of touch, its significance in various cultures, and the psychological implications of touch deprivation. The hosts highlight research indicating that touch is essential for emotional and physical health, particularly in infants. They also address societal taboos surrounding touch, especially between genders, and the consequences of these prohibitions. The conversation delves into how touch can heal, comfort, and connect individuals, emphasizing its importance in fostering relationships and well-being.

Science of Love January 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate science behind love and relationships. He discusses how various factors, including chemistry, mental states, and environmental influences, affect our responses to potential partners. The conversation delves into the biological imperatives of attraction, the significance of first encounters, and the evolution of romantic feelings over time. Armand emphasizes the importance of maintaining excitement in relationships to keep the passion alive, particularly as dopamine levels change after the initial stages of love. The episode offers insights into the dynamics of love, bonding, and the impact of external factors on our emotional connections.