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Shared Pain and Connection January 14, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Ben Starr, Diane, Giullian Gioiello, Oh Sui, Seth

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of shared pain and its impact on relationships and personal growth. Through discussions with guests, the show delves into how emotional pain can become addictive and how shared experiences of pain can foster deeper connections among individuals. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, cultural differences in expressing grief, and the dynamics of relationships influenced by past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with pain and connection, and how these elements shape their lives.

Exploring Relationships and Anger April 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the role of anger and emotional dependency. He discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and the importance of prioritizing partners over family and friends. The conversation touches on the challenges of merging identities in relationships, the impact of trust issues, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating emotional turmoil. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with anger and intimacy, and how these feelings manifest in their relationships.

Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Sexual Obsessions and Anxiety November 9, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Booker Irvin, Kent Robertshaw, Linda Vanella

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of sexual obsession and its relationship with anxiety disorders. They explore how obsessive thoughts about sex can interfere with personal relationships and daily life, and the physiological components that contribute to these behaviors. The conversation delves into societal judgments surrounding sexuality, the impact of medications on sexual desire, and the importance of understanding the underlying causes of sexual compulsions. With insights from psychiatry, the episode aims to destigmatize discussions about sexual health and urges listeners to consider the broader implications of sexual behavior in their lives.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships September 1, 2011

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, outlining his philosophy on the eight significant phases of love. From the exhilarating honeymoon phase to the challenges of long-term commitment, he discusses how timing, chemistry, and personal circumstances shape our romantic experiences. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these phases to foster healthier relationships and navigate the inevitable changes that come with love. He also touches on the hormonal influences that affect our feelings and behaviors within relationships.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Affection January 18, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of affection and its significance in relationships. He discusses the various forms of affection, including nurturing, play, and the importance of touch, particularly for the elderly. The conversation highlights how affection can impact mental health and the ways in which cultural differences shape our understanding of affection. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with affection and its role in their lives, emphasizing the need for connection and the potential consequences of its absence.

Exploring the Chemistry of Love and Relationships September 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the intricate chemistry of love, discussing how initial attraction is influenced by body language, tone of voice, and the powerful hormones involved in bonding. He explores the three stages of love: lust, attraction, and attachment, highlighting the roles of neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. DeMille also examines how these chemical reactions impact relationships, family dynamics, and even mental health, suggesting that issues like PMS and ADD may be symptomatic of broader relational tensions. The conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and connection.

Surviving Relationships and Exit Strategies April 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the often overlooked ‘flight’ reaction in relationships, contrasting it with the more commonly discussed ‘fight or flight’ response. He delves into how individuals prepare exit strategies in their relationships, whether consciously or subconsciously, and discusses the psychological mechanisms behind these behaviors. Armand categorizes people into three types based on their relationship dynamics: those who are comfortable being alone, those who have Ben Starr damaged and seek attachment, and those who choose partners with known flaws. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own strategies for coping with relationship challenges and the importance of maintaining emotional connections.