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Exploring Unexpected Feelings Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of emotions that people often feel but are not expected to feel. He explores various scenarios where individuals may not experience the emotions that society anticipates, such as monogamy, generosity, and patience. Through engaging anecdotes and listener calls, Armand delves into the paradox of feelings, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own emotional experiences and the expectations placed upon them by others. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and accepting one’s feelings, regardless of societal norms.

Understanding Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of relationships, particularly the negative behaviors that often arise between partners. He discusses how familiarity can breed contempt and why couples may act irrationally with each other, despite being reasonable individuals in other contexts. Drawing on research and personal anecdotes, Armand emphasizes the importance of constructive communication and understanding in relationships. He also highlights the need for couples to recognize their patterns of interaction and the impact of unresolved issues from the past. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider how to foster healthier dynamics.

Regrets and the Positive Mindset Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the concept of regrets and how they can shape our lives. He discusses the historical context of 1968, a year marked by significant events that changed the course of history. The conversation explores how individuals can transform their regrets into valuable lessons rather than letting them lead to despair. DeMille emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for past choices and using those experiences to foster personal growth and wisdom. He encourages listeners to share their own journeys of overcoming regrets and finding positivity in their lives.

Caregiving and Caregetting Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella, Lisa Arnone

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with a panel of guests, including Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ The conversation explores the emotional challenges faced by caregivers, the dynamics of family involvement, and the importance of communication in managing relationships during times of illness. The guests share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the difficult decisions surrounding caregiving, while emphasizing the need for self-care and the potential for resentment in these roles. The episode aims to provide listeners with practical tools and understanding to foster healthier caregiving relationships.

Negotiation in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of negotiation in relationships, focusing on the differences in communication styles between men and women. He discusses the importance of emotional intelligence and how it affects negotiations, emphasizing that women often have more developed relationship skills. DeMille provides practical strategies for effective negotiation, encouraging listeners to approach discussions with calmness, openness, and curiosity. He highlights the significance of understanding each partner’s needs and the necessity of collaboration to foster growth in relationships. The episode aims to equip listeners with tools to navigate conflicts and enhance their connections with their partners.

Working With You Is Killing Me Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Crowley, Kathy Elster

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes authors Kathy Elster and Catherine Crowley to discuss their book, ‘Working With You Is Killing Me.’ They explore the complexities of workplace dynamics, including how personal issues can manifest in professional settings. The conversation delves into the concept of being ‘hooked’ by difficult colleagues and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in workplace conflicts. Elster and Crowley provide insights on managing emotions, setting boundaries, and the psychological patterns that influence workplace relationships. This episode offers valuable strategies for navigating the challenges of working with others.

Communication and Connection Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Carlos, Joe, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in romantic relationships. He shares insights from a young couple struggling with communication difficulties as they prepare for marriage. Armand emphasizes the importance of emotional connection, suggesting that effective communication involves holding hands and looking into each other’s eyes. He explores the role of inner demons and past experiences that can hinder open dialogue. The conversation also touches on the differences between emotional and cognitive empathy, and how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier interactions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their communication styles and the impact of their emotional histories.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

Dealing with Narcissism in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of dealing with narcissistic personalities in relationships. Joined by Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist,’ they explore the characteristics of narcissists, including self-absorption, entitlement, and emotional detachment. The conversation delves into the dynamics between narcissists and their partners, offering insights on how to navigate these complex relationships. Wendy emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and provides strategies for setting healthy boundaries while fostering empathy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize the signs of narcissism and learn how to respond effectively.