Keyword: biological boundaries

Human Functioning and Dynamics November 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, particularly focusing on individuals for whom love can be toxic or unnecessary. He discusses the psychological aspects of loneliness, the dynamics of private individuals, and the impact of obsessive-compulsive behaviors on relationships. Through engaging anecdotes and listener calls, the show delves into the nature of human connection, the struggles of those who prefer solitude, and the societal pressures to conform to social norms. Armand encourages listeners to embrace their unique experiences with love and relationships.

Love Regrets November 16, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the regrets that often accompany romantic relationships. He discusses various types of love, including storgic, agapic, manic, pragmatic, and erotic love, and how unresolved childhood issues can manifest in adult relationships. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of regret, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and growth in navigating love. The show encourages reflection on past relationships and the lessons learned, ultimately guiding listeners towards a more positive mindset in their love lives.

Dealing with Difficult People September 13, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Antti

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Antti explore the complexities of interacting with difficult individuals. They discuss various types of difficult people, including the angry, fearful, overly emotional, and passive-aggressive. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing both subjective and objective experiences when dealing with such individuals. They provide insights into understanding the underlying emotions that drive difficult behaviors and offer strategies for managing interactions effectively. By fostering self-awareness and empathy, listeners can navigate challenging relationships and improve their own emotional resilience.

Living Together: The Neat vs. Messy Dilemma August 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of living with roommates or partners, focusing on the contrasts between neat and messy individuals. He discusses how these differences can affect relationships, from noise levels to food sharing and personal space. Armand emphasizes the importance of communication and compromise when cohabitating, highlighting the need to address issues like cleanliness, noise sensitivity, and personal boundaries. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he provides insights into navigating the complexities of shared living arrangements.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Understanding Normalcy and Happiness June 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of normalcy and happiness, discussing various levels of positivity and emotional states. He categorizes people from the ordinary nice person to the manic individual, highlighting the complexities of emotional health. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding oneself and others, emphasizing that while some emotional expressions are normal, others can indicate deeper issues. Armand also shares insights on how societal pressures and personal experiences shape our emotional responses.

Space and Human Behavior January 18, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the multifaceted concept of space, discussing its significance in human behavior and social interactions. They delve into various types of space, including personal, public, and intimate spaces, and how these affect our relationships and feelings of safety. The hosts examine studies on proxemics, the psychological implications of crowded environments, and the evolution of workspace design, such as cubicles. Through engaging anecdotes and observations, they highlight how our perceptions of space influence our daily lives and interactions with others.

Power Dynamics November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the multifaceted nature of power, discussing its various forms, including situational, directional, and fear-based power. He delves into the psychological implications of power struggles, particularly within familial and societal contexts. The conversation highlights how power dynamics can manifest in relationships, especially in childhood experiences, and the long-term effects they can have on individuals. Armand also addresses the darker aspects of power, including sadistic tendencies and the impact of powerlessness on behavior. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Asking for Help Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of asking for help and the psychological barriers that often prevent individuals from reaching out. He discusses the fears of surrender, shame, and separation that contribute to the reluctance to seek assistance. Drawing on insights from psychology, particularly Carl Jung’s archetypes, Armand delves into the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of vulnerability and dependency. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he highlights the importance of recognizing our needs and the transformative power of compassion, both for ourselves and others.

Fathers and Their Roles in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Carolee, Dr. Scott Baum, Keith, Leora, Sippy

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of fatherhood and the evolving roles of men in relationships. He explores how societal expectations impact fathers, touching on themes of sensitivity, aggression, and the search for control within relationships. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the emotional struggles faced by both men and women, emphasizing the importance of understanding and support in fostering healthy connections. The conversation also highlights the challenges of intimacy and the need for self-awareness in personal growth.