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Communicating Feelings April 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communicating feelings in relationships. He discusses the challenges people face when trying to express their emotions and the often egocentric nature of communication. Through various callers, Armand highlights the importance of understanding feelings, the need for safety in communication, and the difficulties that arise when feelings are not adequately expressed. He emphasizes that true communication is more about translation than mere words and encourages listeners to embrace their emotions while fostering deeper connections with others.

Relationships and Their Challenges March 12, 2009

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly how they evolve over time, especially after having children. He discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining their connection and the importance of understanding one’s own needs. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and growth in relationships, urging individuals to prioritize their emotional well-being while navigating the dynamics of love and partnership.

New Strategies for Dealing with Verbal Abuse July 10, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various strategies for dealing with verbal abuse in relationships. He explores natural responses to attack, such as running away, counterattacking, freezing, and adopting a ‘pet dog’ approach. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying issues behind aggressive behavior and suggests facing the storm head-on rather than retreating or responding with anger. He encourages listeners to recognize the illness behind the rage and to maintain their presence during confrontations. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult reactions to conflict.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

Finding Balance in Relationships April 1, 2008

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the delicate balance between individuality (‘me’) and togetherness (‘we’) in relationships. He discusses the importance of maintaining one’s identity while fostering a connection with a partner. Through various examples and insights, he highlights how losing oneself in a relationship can lead to feelings of desperation and isolation. The conversation emphasizes the need for autonomy within partnerships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the dynamics of their relationships. Armand invites callers to share their thoughts and challenges regarding this balance.

Intimacy and Connection January 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and connection in relationships. He addresses common questions about how close is too close and the nature of real intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and psychological insights, he discusses the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the fear of abandonment, and the importance of being genuine in emotional connections. Armand emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in fostering intimacy, while also acknowledging the challenges that arise from past traumas. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and to seek deeper connections with others.

Understanding Punishment September 12, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta explore the complex nature of punishment, examining its role in society and individual psychology. They discuss various forms of punishment, from legal consequences to parental discipline, and delve into the motivations behind our need for limits and structure. The conversation highlights the fine line between constructive and destructive punishment, emphasizing how love and attention can be intertwined with punitive measures. Through anecdotes and reflections, they invite listeners to consider the implications of punishment in their own lives and relationships.

Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews author Sandra Reischus about her book, ‘Oh No, He’s Just Like My Father.’ They explore the unconscious patterns that lead individuals to replicate parental relationships in their romantic lives. Sandra discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationship choices, often resulting in partners who mirror parental figures. The conversation delves into the complexities of these dynamics, the importance of self-awareness, and the potential for growth through therapy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these patterns and seek healthier relationship dynamics.

Youth and the Challenges They Face March 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Brian Jefferson, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of youth today with guests Barbara Jessen, a psychologist, and Stephanie D’Ambra, a medical researcher. They explore the challenges faced by teenagers, including mental health issues, the impact of technology, and the importance of supportive environments. Jessen shares insights from her work with troubled teens at the United Methodist Youth Home, emphasizing the need for understanding and empowerment. The conversation delves into the significance of positive reinforcement, the role of rules in nurturing growth, and the importance of addressing the unique needs of today’s youth.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.