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Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.

Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Leave a Positive Life April 23, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of leading a positive life and the psychological implications of our behaviors under pressure. He discusses the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse, particularly in familial relationships, and how these dynamics shape our identities. Through listener calls, Armand addresses personal struggles with parental relationships, emotional turmoil, and the quest for self-validation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s internal self and the consequences of unresolved emotional baggage. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and seek healthier connections.

Power Exchange December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of power exchange in relationships, particularly focusing on dominance and submission. He discusses how individuals often fight for the rights of others while being dominated in their personal lives. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these relationships, the appeal of power dynamics, and the reasons why some individuals prefer to be submissive or dominant. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own preferences and experiences in relationships, with a focus on the complexities of emotional power and control.

Fears and Advice November 6, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fear and the often unsolicited advice people give. He engages with callers about their personal fears, ranging from phobias to deeper psychological issues rooted in childhood experiences. The discussion also delves into the dynamics of family relationships, particularly the challenges of dealing with overbearing advice from parents and loved ones. Through heartfelt conversations, listeners reflect on their own fears and the impact of advice on their lives, revealing the intricate connections between fear, love, and personal growth.

Harmonizing Self-Control and Relationships November 5, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, focusing on the themes of trust, self-control, and the impact of past experiences on current interactions. He engages with callers who share their struggles with misanthropy, distrust, and the challenge of forming meaningful connections. Through insightful discussions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and others, encouraging listeners to reflect on their past and how it shapes their present relationships. The conversation highlights the transformative power of empathy and the necessity of building trust in both personal and professional spheres.

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression September 11, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of anger, aggression, and passive-aggressive behavior. He discusses how these traits manifest in relationships and society, particularly in the context of political and personal interactions. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in healthy ways, while also addressing the impact of passive-aggressive behavior on relationships. He provides insights into how to confront such behaviors constructively and the significance of trust in fostering meaningful connections. The episode also touches on the themes of fear and suffering, particularly in light of current events.