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Understanding Survival Through Tragedy January 14, 2010

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex psychological mechanisms that allow individuals to cope with trauma and tragedy, particularly in the context of disasters like those experienced in Haiti. He discusses concepts such as dissociative amnesia, deja vu, and the role of religion in providing hope and connection during difficult times. Through conversations with listeners, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding our shared humanity and the innate resilience that surfaces in the face of adversity.

Feelings and Emotions July 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and neurologist Sherri Siegel explore the complexities of human emotions, focusing on alexithymia, a condition where individuals struggle to identify and express their feelings. They discuss how emotional numbness can develop due to trauma, cultural factors, and the impact of aging on emotional sensitivity. The conversation delves into the physiological aspects of emotions, the interplay between the brain and nervous system, and the challenges individuals face in communicating their feelings. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their emotional experiences and the importance of understanding feelings in relationships.

Memory, Love, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves March 5, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of memory and its profound impact on our understanding of love. He discusses how memories can be distorted over time, leading to misconceptions about past experiences and relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing how our memories shape our definitions of love and connection. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of memory recall, emphasizing that our recollections may not always be accurate and can influence our present relationships in unexpected ways.

Athletes and Stamina: The Importance of a Flexible Mind October 23, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of mental flexibility and its significance in navigating life’s challenges. He contrasts rigid belief systems with the benefits of a flexible mind, emphasizing how adaptability can enhance personal growth and resilience. Through various examples, including addiction and trauma, he illustrates how inflexible thinking can lead to psychological disorders. Armand encourages listeners to embrace new perspectives and experiences, suggesting that mental agility can transform everyday life into an exciting journey of discovery. The episode also features listener calls, offering insights into personal struggles and the quest for a more adaptable mindset.

Denial and Its Many Forms June 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of denial as a psychological defense mechanism. He discusses how denial manifests in various forms, such as denial of fact, responsibility, impact, and awareness. Through examples, he illustrates how denial can hinder personal growth and coping with reality, particularly in the context of addiction and emotional pain. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing denial in oneself and others, and how it can prevent individuals from confronting uncomfortable truths. Armand also touches on the implications of denial in serious situations, such as illness and loss, and the need for awareness and acceptance to foster healing and understanding.

Understanding Attachment Styles March 26, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Iris Reiner

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes Dr. Iris Reiner, a psychologist and researcher from Germany, to discuss the complexities of love and attachment styles. They explore the three major attachment styles: secure, dismissing, and preoccupied, and how these styles affect relationships. Dr. Reiner shares insights from her research on how genetics and parenting influence attachment behaviors. The conversation delves into the implications of these styles on emotional health and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself and others in fostering secure connections.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder August 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), exploring its origins, symptoms, and the societal implications surrounding its diagnosis. He delves into the historical context of PTSD, particularly in relation to war and trauma, and examines how different individuals experience and process trauma. The conversation highlights the challenges of distinguishing between genuine PTSD and other emotional disturbances, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma’s effects on mental health. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the broader implications of trauma in society.

Youth and the Challenges They Face March 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Brian Jefferson, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of youth today with guests Barbara Jessen, a psychologist, and Stephanie D’Ambra, a medical researcher. They explore the challenges faced by teenagers, including mental health issues, the impact of technology, and the importance of supportive environments. Jessen shares insights from her work with troubled teens at the United Methodist Youth Home, emphasizing the need for understanding and empowerment. The conversation delves into the significance of positive reinforcement, the role of rules in nurturing growth, and the importance of addressing the unique needs of today’s youth.

Music, Healing, and the Science of Emotion November 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Candice Pert

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Candice Pert, a renowned scientist and author, discussing the profound connections between music, emotion, and healing. They explore how our bodies resonate with sound frequencies, the impact of music on our psychosomatic health, and the controversial topic of aspartame and its effects on well-being. Dr. Pert shares her insights on the importance of integrating mind and body therapies, emphasizing the role of emotions in shaping our experiences and health. This enlightening conversation highlights the intersection of science and spirituality in understanding human consciousness.

Long-Range Effects of 9/11 September 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the profound psychological and physical impacts of the 9/11 attacks, particularly as the anniversary approaches. He highlights findings from health studies on first responders and the general public, revealing increased rates of anxiety, PTSD, and other health issues. DeMille emphasizes the long-term psychological effects, noting how pre-existing conditions were exacerbated by the trauma of the event. He also explores the paradox of community bonding and personal growth that emerged in the aftermath, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the changes they’ve undergone since that pivotal day.