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Psychology for Therapists Part 12: Magical Thinking and the Double Bind September 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Brian Jefferson, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Ilana Rubenfeld, Johnna Valerio

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of magical thinking and the double bind, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and mental health. He discusses how these psychological phenomena can shape our perceptions and behaviors, often leading to confusion and anxiety. Through examples and personal anecdotes, Armand illustrates how individuals navigate these complex emotional landscapes, emphasizing the importance of understanding these dynamics for therapists and their clients. The conversation also touches on the role of perception and communication in relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences.

Exploring the Unconscious Mind August 7, 2012

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the unconscious mind and its profound influence on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Joined by co-producer Lisa Arnone, they discuss how unconscious memories and instincts shape our reactions and preferences, often without our awareness. Through various examples, they explore how past experiences, both positive and negative, are stored in the unconscious and affect our daily lives. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these hidden aspects of our psyche to foster personal growth and emotional healing.

Interpreting Dreams and Human Relationships March 14, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of sexuality and familial connections. He discusses how early experiences with parents can shape adult behavior, especially in romantic contexts. The conversation delves into the motivations behind sexual encounters, the search for nurturing figures, and the impact of trauma on intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the deeper meanings behind their relationships and desires.

Betrayal and Trust June 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of betrayal and trust, discussing how these concepts manifest in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and political contexts. He delves into the psychological impacts of betrayal trauma, highlighting how it can distort perceptions and affect emotional well-being. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, Armand examines the nuances of jealousy, dominance, and the human tendency to overlook betrayal in the name of love or loyalty. The discussion also touches on the societal implications of betrayal, particularly in leadership and governance.

Capgras Syndrome and Depersonalization April 19, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jeffrey Abugel, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses Capgras Syndrome, a condition where individuals believe their loved ones are imposters. Joined by Jeffrey Abugel, who shares his experiences with depersonalization disorder, they explore the psychological implications of feeling disconnected from oneself and reality. The conversation delves into the symptoms, causes, and potential treatments for these complex disorders, emphasizing the emotional struggles faced by those affected. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these conditions and offers hope for recovery through therapy and medication.

Reactions to Catastrophe March 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amhara, Anthony, Daphne Rose Kingma, Dr. Ronald Fieve, Linda Vanella, Monroe, Pat Moffitt, Vincent

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the varied human reactions to catastrophic events, particularly focusing on the recent disasters in Japan. He explores cultural differences in responses, emphasizing the Japanese values of security and harmony. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into personal experiences of fear, helplessness, and the quest for understanding in the face of tragedy. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own reactions and the importance of compassion in times of crisis.

Accessing Your Real Self: What Does It Mean to Be Real November 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alberto, Charles Bavona, Karen, Kelly, Megan, Monroe, Shakara, Teresa

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound question of what it means to be real. Through introspective dialogue and listener call-ins, he discusses how people present either strength or weakness depending on their needs, fears, or survival instincts. Armand connects the idea of authenticity with pain, vulnerability, and presence, arguing that “crazy” behaviors are often adaptations to protect fragile selves. Excerpts from The Velveteen Rabbit and quotes from E.E. Cummings, Judy Garland, and others enrich the philosophical journey. Callers share personal experiences with trauma, depression, overthinking, and strained relationships, revealing how pain, when accepted, can guide people back to their true selves. The episode urges listeners to face discomfort, question disguises, and reclaim their real identities.

Exploring Emotional Reactions September 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elisa, Feli Stengel, Lauren Sykes, Marcus, Thelma Wingate

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of emotional reactions, particularly focusing on irrationality and over-emotionality in relationships. He discusses how these reactions can manifest in various forms, such as fear, anger, and sadness, and how they can impact interpersonal dynamics. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these emotional responses and their biological underpinnings, particularly the role of the amygdala. He also highlights the societal fascination with emotional extremes, especially in media, and encourages listeners to seek calm and rationality amidst emotional turmoil.

9-11 and the Aftermath September 14, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the long-term psychological effects of the 9-11 attacks, referencing a Cornell University study that examined trauma in individuals who witnessed the events. The conversation explores how trauma can alter brain function, particularly the amygdala, which is responsible for emotional responses. DeMille and guest Stephanie D’Ambra delve into the complexities of depression, anxiety, and panic attacks, emphasizing the importance of understanding these conditions. They also discuss innovative approaches to mitigating post-traumatic stress, including the surprising role of video games like Tetris in preventing trauma consolidation. The episode highlights the significance of community support and the need for mental health awareness.

Venting: The Good and the Bad May 6, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Stephanie D’Ambra explore the concept of venting, discussing its potential benefits and drawbacks. They delve into how venting can provide temporary relief from frustration and the importance of having a supportive listener. However, they also highlight research suggesting that excessive venting, especially in the context of trauma, can reinforce negative feelings and memories. The hosts emphasize the need for mindful communication and self-soothing techniques, rather than relying solely on venting to process emotions. The conversation touches on the implications of venting in various contexts, including relationships and mental health.