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Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Betrayal January 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex issue of betrayal, focusing on self-betrayal and its roots in childhood. He discusses how early experiences with love and power shape our understanding of relationships and the choices we make as adults. Through conversations with guests, the episode delves into the emotional turmoil that arises from feeling betrayed by others and oneself. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing our authentic selves and the impact of societal expectations on our emotional well-being.

Betrayal January 21, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Giullian Gioiello delve into the complex topic of betrayal, exploring its various forms and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. They discuss historical examples, such as the betrayals of Jesus by Judas and Caesar by Brutus, and how these stories resonate with personal experiences of infidelity and deception. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of betrayal, including self-betrayal, guilt, and the impact on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of trust in their lives.

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression September 11, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of anger, aggression, and passive-aggressive behavior. He discusses how these traits manifest in relationships and society, particularly in the context of political and personal interactions. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in healthy ways, while also addressing the impact of passive-aggressive behavior on relationships. He provides insights into how to confront such behaviors constructively and the significance of trust in fostering meaningful connections. The episode also touches on the themes of fear and suffering, particularly in light of current events.

Games and Life Scripts April 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Claude Steiner

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of games and life scripts, exploring how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and relationships. He is joined by Dr. Claude Steiner, an expert in transactional analysis, who explains how people often repeat negative patterns in their interactions, leading to emotional games like ‘uproar’ and ‘do me something.’ The conversation delves into the importance of recognizing these scripts and the potential for change through awareness and emotional literacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own patterns and consider how they can foster healthier relationships.

Psychopathy and Betrayal August 28, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of psychopathy and betrayal, discussing how individuals with psychopathic traits can impact their communities more than those with full-blown psychopathy. He delves into the nature of betrayal, its psychological effects, and how societal norms can shape our understanding of trust and loyalty. Through engaging anecdotes and philosophical insights, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences with betrayal and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. He emphasizes the need for vigilance and understanding in love, while also addressing the cultural nuances surrounding betrayal.

Family Secrets and Their Impact August 17, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of family secrets and their profound effects on relationships. He discusses how secrets can divide families, create misunderstandings, and freeze emotional development. The conversation highlights the importance of timing and context when revealing secrets, emphasizing that while some secrets can foster bonds, others can lead to lasting emotional scars. Armand shares insights from his experience as a therapist, illustrating the delicate balance between keeping and revealing secrets within families. The episode encourages listeners to consider the impact of secrets on their own lives and relationships.

Betrayal and Trust June 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of betrayal and trust, discussing how these concepts manifest in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and political contexts. He delves into the psychological impacts of betrayal trauma, highlighting how it can distort perceptions and affect emotional well-being. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, Armand examines the nuances of jealousy, dominance, and the human tendency to overlook betrayal in the name of love or loyalty. The discussion also touches on the societal implications of betrayal, particularly in leadership and governance.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.