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Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

Tax Day Reflections April 15, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Giullian Gioiello discuss the complexities of taxes, both financial and personal. They explore the psychological reasons behind tax reluctance, the burdens of responsibility, and the metaphorical taxes we pay in life, such as emotional labor in relationships and societal expectations. The conversation touches on various tax rates around the world, the impact of taxes on personal freedom, and the importance of understanding the emotional costs associated with our choices. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ‘taxes’ in life and how they navigate these challenges.

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

New Year’s Reflections on Relationships December 31, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional complexities surrounding relationships as the year comes to a close. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore themes of love, guilt, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals may stay in relationships out of obligation, the significance of New Year’s Eve in reflecting on past relationships, and the struggles of navigating feelings of loneliness and desire for closeness. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics and the emotional toll they may carry into the new year.

Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne-Marie, Ben Starr, David Travland, Dr. Joe Ledoux, Giullian Gioiello, Hanara, Patricia Miranda, Roger, Steve

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

How We Present Ourselves December 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Elizabeth Gould, Giullian Gioiello, Rina

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-presentation and interpersonal relationships with guests Giullian Gioiello, Ben Starr, Elizabeth, Rina, and Anna. The discussion delves into how individuals project their identities, the roles they assume in different contexts, and the underlying needs that drive these presentations. The guests share personal insights on the balance between vulnerability and strength, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-image. As they navigate through themes of acceptance and the masks we wear, the conversation reveals the intricate dance of human connection.

Strategies for Living November 12, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various strategies people use to navigate life, drawing parallels between human behavior and animal instincts. He discusses how individuals develop unique strategies based on their upbringing and experiences, such as the need for approval, the desire for beauty, or the instinct to dominate. Through engaging conversations with guests, the show delves into the complexities of human relationships and the importance of understanding different survival strategies. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own strategies and how they impact their lives and interactions with others.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.