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Mindset April 24, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of mindset with Dr. Carol Dweck, author of the influential book ‘Mindset’. They explore the differences between fixed and growth mindsets, particularly in relation to personal development, relationships, and parenting. Dweck explains how a fixed mindset can lead to a fragile ego and avoidance of challenges, while a growth mindset encourages resilience and learning from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of these mindsets in children, relationships, and even societal issues like bullying. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a growth mindset for a more fulfilling and adaptable life.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Truth, Innocence, and the Human Experience April 27, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne O'Connell, Kent Robertshaw, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a deep conversation with guests Kent Robertshaw and Anne O’Connell about the complexities of truth, innocence, and the human experience. They explore themes of gullibility, cynicism, and the importance of psychotherapy in treating mental health issues. The discussion touches on the challenges faced by mental health practitioners in building trust with clients, especially those with histories of substance abuse and trauma. The guests share insights from their experiences in outpatient mental health clinics, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in therapy.

Understanding Personality Types in Crisis Situations December 20, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various personality types and their reactions during crises. He discusses obsessive-compulsive behaviors, sociopathic tendencies, and the impact of personality disorders on decision-making in stressful situations. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding emotions and feelings during challenging times, urging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and reactions. Through engaging conversations with callers, he highlights the significance of empathy and support for those affected by crises, encouraging a compassionate approach to understanding human behavior.

Negotiation in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of negotiation in relationships, focusing on the differences in communication styles between men and women. He discusses the importance of emotional intelligence and how it affects negotiations, emphasizing that women often have more developed relationship skills. DeMille provides practical strategies for effective negotiation, encouraging listeners to approach discussions with calmness, openness, and curiosity. He highlights the significance of understanding each partner’s needs and the necessity of collaboration to foster growth in relationships. The episode aims to equip listeners with tools to navigate conflicts and enhance their connections with their partners.

Significance and the Search for Meaning Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of significance and its impact on our lives. He explores how society’s obsession with being seen and recognized can lead to feelings of depression and insignificance. Through personal anecdotes and philosophical reflections, he questions the importance we place on external validation and the quest for recognition. The conversation delves into the nature of exhibitionism, agency, and the potential for finding meaning in moments of invisibility. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with significance and the ways they seek to be noticed.