The Positive Mind

Keyword: behavioral negotiation

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Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone
Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Education for Psychologists: The Role of the Unconscious August 8, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone
Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone discuss the unconscious mind’s role in shaping our thoughts and behaviors. They explore concepts from Freud, including the id, ego, and superego, and how these elements interact within our psyche. The hosts share listener responses about the significance of Armand’s voice, highlighting themes of safety, kindness, and understanding. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the unconscious influences that affect our lives, as well as the therapeutic process of uncovering these hidden aspects of our minds.

Mindset February 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck
Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist and author of ‘Mindset.’ They explore the concepts of fixed and growth mindsets, discussing how these perspectives influence personal development, relationships, and reactions to challenges. Dweck emphasizes the importance of fostering a growth mindset in children to help them embrace challenges and learn from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of mindset in various contexts, including education, parenting, and even societal issues like bullying. Through engaging dialogue, the episode highlights how mindset shapes our experiences and interactions.

Practical Steps for Negotiating Fairness June 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. B. Janet Hibbs, Dr. William Peter Atwood
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of fairness in relationships with Dr. B. Janet Hibbs and Dr. William Peter Atwood. They explore how our upbringing shapes our perceptions of fairness and the importance of trust in relationships. The conversation delves into common pitfalls couples face, such as quid pro quo negotiations and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. The guests share practical exercises for couples to improve communication, recognize injustices, and foster appreciation, ultimately aiming to create a healthier dynamic in their partnerships.

Claudia Fox on Success March 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Claudia Fox
Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Claudia Fox about the multifaceted nature of success and how individuals can define it for themselves. Claudia shares insights from her workshops on personal growth, the importance of self-motivation, and the role of happiness in achieving success. They discuss practical steps to success, including the significance of self-awareness, the value of feedback from others, and the importance of maintaining a positive outlook. Claudia emphasizes that success is not solely about financial gain but also about fulfillment and joy in one’s work and life.

Greed and the Human Condition December 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr
Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of greed and its impact on human relationships and personal fulfillment. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they discuss how greed can manifest in various forms, from the desire for wealth to the need for love and validation. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, they delve into the motivations behind greed and the importance of recognizing our desires. The episode emphasizes the need for balance in our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on what truly matters—connection, love, and self-awareness—over material pursuits.

Bringing You Ideas for a Positively Minded Life October 29, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes his longtime friend and psychologist Dr. Bernard Starr to discuss the evolution of psychotherapy, particularly focusing on the importance of emotional awareness and the concept of spiritual psychology. They explore how traditional therapy often emphasizes the ego and personal experiences, while spiritual psychology seeks to transcend these limitations. The conversation delves into the challenges of integrating emotional experiences with a broader understanding of consciousness, emphasizing the need for both personal and spiritual growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own emotional journeys and the complexities of relationships.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

Morality and Judgment March 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of morality and judgment, drawing on psychological theories from Freud and Eric Berne. He discusses the id, ego, and superego, and how these concepts influence our understanding of right and wrong. The conversation delves into moral dilemmas, societal judgments, and the impact of neuroscience on our ethical decisions. Through various examples, including controversial topics like war and personal relationships, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own moral beliefs and the influences that shape them.

Eddie Daniels and Kent Robertshaw in Conversation November 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Eddie Daniels, Kent Robertshaw, Mirabai
Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes renowned clarinetist and tenor saxophonist Eddie Daniels, along with pianist Kent Robertshaw. They delve into the artistry of jazz, discussing the importance of creativity, the relationship between musicians, and the balance between striving for perfection and embracing mistakes. Eddie shares insights from his long career, including his experiences with legendary musicians and the evolution of his sound. The conversation also touches on personal growth, the significance of relationships, and the emotional depth that music can convey. This engaging dialogue offers a glimpse into the world of jazz and the profound connections it fosters.