Keyword: behavioral control

Worry and Fear: Understanding Risk Assessment January 16, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between worry, fear, and risk assessment. He discusses how our primitive brain processes fear and how it can lead to unhealthy behaviors and irrational fears. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between real and perceived risks, particularly in modern society where many fears are influenced by media and personal experiences. He also addresses the impact of fear on decision-making and the importance of learning to manage it effectively for a healthier, more balanced life.

Understanding Punishment September 12, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta explore the complex nature of punishment, examining its role in society and individual psychology. They discuss various forms of punishment, from legal consequences to parental discipline, and delve into the motivations behind our need for limits and structure. The conversation highlights the fine line between constructive and destructive punishment, emphasizing how love and attention can be intertwined with punitive measures. Through anecdotes and reflections, they invite listeners to consider the implications of punishment in their own lives and relationships.

Romance and Love May 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance and love, discussing how these emotions can lead to both joy and turmoil. He delves into the psychological aspects of love, including obsession, jealousy, and the phenomenon of stalking. DeMille highlights the impact of love on mental health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and understanding in navigating romantic connections. He also touches on the societal implications of love-related issues, such as stalking and emotional dependency, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of their attachments.

Alpha Leaders April 11, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of alpha leaders, discussing the characteristics that define alpha males and females. They delve into the distinctions between alpha personalities and type A personalities, examining how these traits manifest in both humans and animals. The conversation highlights the roles of alpha individuals in maintaining group cohesion and leadership, as well as the potential psychological impacts of losing one’s territory. The hosts also touch on the complexities of alpha dynamics in relationships and society, providing insights into the nature of leadership and influence.

Powerlessness and Helplessness November 8, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of powerlessness and helplessness, particularly in the context of political and personal struggles. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore how feelings of powerlessness can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety and social phobia. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling out of control and the importance of recognizing one’s rights and entitlements. They emphasize that while powerlessness is a common human experience, acknowledging it can lead to personal growth and healing.

Punishment and the Fear of Being Punished June 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between punishment and the psychological fears that stem from childhood experiences. He discusses how individuals often carry a sense of impending punishment throughout their lives, affecting their mental health and relationships. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal stories that illustrate how fears of abandonment, control, and self-worth are intertwined with past traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these fears to lead a more positively minded life.

Anorexia: Understanding the Control Issue January 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests delve into the complexities of anorexia, exploring its roots in anxiety and the desire for control. They discuss how societal pressures and family expectations contribute to the development of this eating disorder, which is often mischaracterized as merely a food issue. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of anorexia, including the denial of the illness and the emotional turmoil that accompanies it. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding anorexia as a rebellion against adulthood and the need for a supportive environment to facilitate recovery.

Power Dynamics November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the multifaceted nature of power, discussing its various forms, including situational, directional, and fear-based power. He delves into the psychological implications of power struggles, particularly within familial and societal contexts. The conversation highlights how power dynamics can manifest in relationships, especially in childhood experiences, and the long-term effects they can have on individuals. Armand also addresses the darker aspects of power, including sadistic tendencies and the impact of powerlessness on behavior. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Fathers and Their Roles in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Carolee, Dr. Scott Baum, Keith, Leora, Sippy

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of fatherhood and the evolving roles of men in relationships. He explores how societal expectations impact fathers, touching on themes of sensitivity, aggression, and the search for control within relationships. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the emotional struggles faced by both men and women, emphasizing the importance of understanding and support in fostering healthy connections. The conversation also highlights the challenges of intimacy and the need for self-awareness in personal growth.