Keyword: BDSM

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.

Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.