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Betrayal and Trust June 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of betrayal and trust, discussing how these concepts manifest in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and political contexts. He delves into the psychological impacts of betrayal trauma, highlighting how it can distort perceptions and affect emotional well-being. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, Armand examines the nuances of jealousy, dominance, and the human tendency to overlook betrayal in the name of love or loyalty. The discussion also touches on the societal implications of betrayal, particularly in leadership and governance.

How Do People Perceive You? March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of self-perception and how others perceive us. He discusses the importance of understanding how we are viewed by those around us, whether they see us as trustworthy, invisible, or as a resource. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into the nuances of relationships and the impact of our actions and words on how we are perceived. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the stories they tell about themselves, ultimately questioning the gap between self-image and external perception.

Discernment and Relationships December 28, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of discernment in relationships and the challenges of understanding what is truly going on beneath the surface. He discusses how individuals often misinterpret their partners’ actions and emotions, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the importance of clear communication and self-awareness in navigating relationships. He also highlights the tendency for people to project their needs and insecurities onto others, complicating the dynamics of love and trust. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own perceptions and to seek deeper connections with their partners.

My Mind is Not Always My Friend September 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra, Stephen Fogle

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of the mind and how it can sometimes work against us. Joined by guests Stephen Fogle and Stephanie D’Ambra, they explore themes of overreacting, the influence of past experiences on present behavior, and the importance of self-awareness in managing our thoughts. Fogle shares insights from his book, emphasizing that our minds can be both friends and foes, depending on how we interpret our experiences. The conversation delves into the chemistry of the brain, the role of the amygdala, and practical strategies for recognizing and addressing negative thought patterns.

Neurodiversity June 22, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Thomas Armstrong, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Thomas Armstrong about the concept of neurodiversity, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and celebrating the diversity of human brains. They discuss various mental conditions such as autism, ADHD, and mood disorders, exploring how these conditions can offer unique strengths and perspectives. Dr. Armstrong advocates for a shift in perception, suggesting that society should focus on the positive aspects of neurodiversity rather than viewing these differences solely as disorders. The conversation highlights the need for supportive environments that nurture individual strengths and promote understanding among diverse populations.

Exploring Relationships and Aging December 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love, relationships, and aging with Dr. Bernard Starr. They delve into the dynamics of intimacy, the perception of older individuals as resources, and the emotional challenges that arise when relationships falter. The conversation highlights the importance of communication and understanding in maintaining connections as people age, while also addressing societal stereotypes surrounding older adults. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the ways in which aging impacts their lives and interactions.

Filling In: The Brain’s Fascinating Process December 16, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the intriguing phenomenon of ‘filling in’ as it relates to human cognition and emotions. They discuss how our brains automatically fill in gaps in our experiences, from visual and auditory perceptions to dreams and memories. The conversation delves into the neurological underpinnings of this process, its implications for understanding relationships and emotions, and how it manifests in various aspects of life, including romance and personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and dreams, highlighting the importance of recognizing and addressing the gaps in our understanding of ourselves.

Messages of Love and Communication December 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of communication, from traditional mail to modern texting and sexting. He discusses how these forms of messaging impact our chemistry and relationships, emphasizing the importance of sound and human connection. Armand reflects on the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a digital age, where messages can be misinterpreted and lack emotional depth. He also addresses the societal implications of texting, particularly among younger generations, and the potential consequences of digital communication in personal and professional contexts.

Listening with the Special Ear July 2, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nuances of human interaction, emphasizing the importance of listening to subtle cues in conversations. He discusses how seemingly benign comments can reveal deeper issues and the significance of being aware of our surroundings and the people we engage with. Through various anecdotes and examples, he illustrates how our perceptions can be influenced by our desires and fears. DeMille also touches on psychological phenomena like the nocebo effect and cultural beliefs that shape our understanding of mental health. The episode encourages listeners to ask questions and seek deeper connections without judgment.

Confrontation: A Double-Edged Sword July 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Sherri Siegel explore the complexities of confrontation, discussing its cultural perceptions and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. They delve into the necessity of confrontation in addressing injustices while highlighting the importance of skillful communication. The conversation touches on the emotional triggers that can escalate conflicts and the significance of finding common ground in disagreements. Listeners are encouraged to approach confrontations with empathy and a focus on constructive outcomes, rather than destructive patterns. The episode also includes insights from callers sharing their personal experiences with confrontation.