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Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne-Marie, Ben Starr, David Travland, Dr. Joe Ledoux, Giullian Gioiello, Hanara, Patricia Miranda, Roger, Steve

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

How We Present Ourselves December 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Elizabeth Gould, Giullian Gioiello, Rina

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-presentation and interpersonal relationships with guests Giullian Gioiello, Ben Starr, Elizabeth, Rina, and Anna. The discussion delves into how individuals project their identities, the roles they assume in different contexts, and the underlying needs that drive these presentations. The guests share personal insights on the balance between vulnerability and strength, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-image. As they navigate through themes of acceptance and the masks we wear, the conversation reveals the intricate dance of human connection.

Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.

Funny Thinking September 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘funny thinking’—irrational beliefs that lead to emotional disturbance and unhappiness. He discusses how our thoughts can create stress and affect our spirit, particularly in the context of physical illness and emotional challenges. Armand shares insights from his experiences as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the dangers of seeking external validation. He provides a list of common irrational thoughts and encourages listeners to identify their feelings to better understand their emotional states. This episode aims to help individuals recognize and challenge their funny thinking patterns for a more positive mindset.

Rejection September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of rejection and its impact on our lives. He explores how rejection is often perceived as a negative experience, leading to feelings of worthlessness and disappointment. However, he argues that rejection is not an emotion but a perception of someone’s behavior. DeMille encourages listeners to examine their feelings and reactions to rejection, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. He also delves into the roots of creativity and how it can be stifled by societal expectations, urging listeners to embrace their creative spirit as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.

What’s the Truth? September 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of truth and storytelling, discussing how our narratives shape our perceptions and relationships. He delves into the complexities of personal stories, the roles of listeners and storytellers, and the impact of societal expectations on our lives. Joined by guests Lisa Arnone and John Valerio, they reflect on the stories we tell ourselves and others, the anxiety stemming from an insensitive world, and the importance of genuine connections. The conversation emphasizes that while stories can provide comfort, they can also obscure reality, urging listeners to recognize the difference between their narratives and the truth.

Psychology for Therapists Part 12: Magical Thinking and the Double Bind September 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Brian Jefferson, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Ilana Rubenfeld, Johnna Valerio

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of magical thinking and the double bind, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and mental health. He discusses how these psychological phenomena can shape our perceptions and behaviors, often leading to confusion and anxiety. Through examples and personal anecdotes, Armand illustrates how individuals navigate these complex emotional landscapes, emphasizing the importance of understanding these dynamics for therapists and their clients. The conversation also touches on the role of perception and communication in relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences.

Talking Styles and the Human Voice August 29, 2012

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes voice specialist Elizabeth Sastry to discuss the nuances of talking styles and how they reflect our personalities. They explore various speech patterns, including deferential, dramatic, and worrisome styles, and how these can influence communication and relationships. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding one’s voice and the rhythm of speech, while also touching on the duality of human emotions. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their own speech patterns and consider how they affect their interactions with others.

Exploring the Unconscious Mind August 7, 2012

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the unconscious mind and its profound influence on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Joined by co-producer Lisa Arnone, they discuss how unconscious memories and instincts shape our reactions and preferences, often without our awareness. Through various examples, they explore how past experiences, both positive and negative, are stored in the unconscious and affect our daily lives. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these hidden aspects of our psyche to foster personal growth and emotional healing.

Celebrating Different Perspectives April 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joanna, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of perceiving life without judgment, emphasizing that not everything needs to be viewed positively. He discusses the importance of recognizing the strength in our perceived weaknesses, such as depression and paranoia, and how these feelings can serve a purpose in our lives. Through various examples, including a little girl’s drawing and personal anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to embrace their complexities and celebrate their unique perspectives. The episode also features a birthday celebration for Joanna and insights into the power dynamics in relationships.