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New Strategies for Dealing with Verbal Abuse July 10, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various strategies for dealing with verbal abuse in relationships. He explores natural responses to attack, such as running away, counterattacking, freezing, and adopting a ‘pet dog’ approach. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying issues behind aggressive behavior and suggests facing the storm head-on rather than retreating or responding with anger. He encourages listeners to recognize the illness behind the rage and to maintain their presence during confrontations. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood experiences on adult reactions to conflict.

Ice Cream in the Cupboard June 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Pat Moffitt

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Pat Moffitt, author of ‘Ice Cream in the Cupboard,’ about his personal journey with his wife Carmen, who was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease at the age of 53. Pat shares the challenges of caregiving, the emotional toll it took on him, and the gradual loss of connection with his wife. Through their story, he highlights the importance of awareness and understanding of early onset Alzheimer’s, as well as the need for support for caregivers. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the complexities of love, loss, and the impact of Alzheimer’s on families.

Finding Your Authentic Self May 6, 2008

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of identifying one’s authentic self amidst societal pressures and personal struggles. Through humor and insightful anecdotes, he discusses the nature of depression, creativity, and the quest for authenticity. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and feelings, questioning what is real and what is merely a facade. The episode also touches on the importance of self-discovery and the challenges of navigating emotions in a fast-paced world.

Eliot Spitzer and the Pressure of Power March 11, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent scandal involving former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, who allegedly violated the Mann Act by transporting a sex worker across state lines. DeMille explores the psychological pressures faced by politicians and how these pressures can lead to self-destructive behavior. He reflects on the complexities of power, infidelity, and public judgment, encouraging listeners to consider the broader implications of Spitzer’s actions. The conversation also touches on societal attitudes toward infidelity and the media’s role in shaping public perception.

Interview with Dr. Irvin Yalom March 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Irvin Yalom

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychiatrist and author Dr. Irvin Yalom about the intricacies of psychotherapy, particularly focusing on the concepts of transference and countertransference in therapeutic relationships. They discuss the impact of death anxiety on patients and how facing mortality can lead to a more authentic life. Dr. Yalom shares insights from his books, including ‘Love’s Executioner’ and ‘When Nietzsche Wept,’ emphasizing the importance of empathy and genuine connection in therapy. The conversation also touches on the portrayal of therapy in media and the challenges therapists face in maintaining authenticity.

Depression in the Elderly January 30, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw discuss the often-overlooked issue of depression among the elderly. They emphasize that depression is not a normal part of aging and highlight the importance of recognizing its symptoms, which can manifest as physical complaints. The conversation covers the stigma surrounding mental health in older adults, the impact of loss and isolation, and the significance of empathy in treatment. They also explore the concept of pseudo-dementia, where depression mimics cognitive decline, and the need for early intervention to improve quality of life. The episode encourages listeners to be attentive to the emotional signs of depression in their loved ones.

Rhythm and Its Importance in Life January 29, 2008

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of rhythm and its significance in our lives. He discusses how rhythm influences everything from music to love, and how it shapes our daily experiences. Through various anecdotes and interactions with callers, he emphasizes the importance of finding one’s rhythm and the impact of being out of sync. The episode features reflections on personal stories, the rhythm of life, and the connections we share with others through music and emotion.

Making Excuses January 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the pervasive habit of making excuses and its impact on personal responsibility and growth. He explores the origins of excuses, tracing them back to childhood and societal influences, while emphasizing the importance of owning one’s actions. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand illustrates how excuses can hinder success and self-improvement. He encourages listeners to recognize their choices, embrace responsibility, and cultivate a mindset that fosters accountability. The episode concludes with practical advice on overcoming the tendency to make excuses and building a more fulfilling life.

Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.

Fear and Its Associations November 15, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between fear and personal experiences, particularly focusing on odontophobia, the fear of dentists. He discusses how childhood experiences and parental relationships can shape our fears and aversions. Through engaging anecdotes and psychological insights, he encourages listeners to examine their own fears, understand their origins, and consider ways to recondition their responses. The conversation highlights the importance of addressing fears openly and the potential for positive experiences to reshape our perceptions.