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Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

Strategies for Living November 12, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various strategies people use to navigate life, drawing parallels between human behavior and animal instincts. He discusses how individuals develop unique strategies based on their upbringing and experiences, such as the need for approval, the desire for beauty, or the instinct to dominate. Through engaging conversations with guests, the show delves into the complexities of human relationships and the importance of understanding different survival strategies. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own strategies and how they impact their lives and interactions with others.

Communication and Anxiety in the Digital Age September 24, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of modern communication methods, particularly cell phones and social media, on anxiety and interpersonal relationships. Joined by guests Michael Jessen, Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Giullian Gioiello, and Ben Starr, the conversation delves into how constant connectivity can lead to increased nervousness and a sense of danger. The group explores the implications of digital communication on personal connections, the nature of thinking, and the societal expectations surrounding immediate responses. They also reflect on the balance between technology and genuine human interaction, questioning whether the digital age enhances or detracts from our emotional well-being.

Funny Thinking September 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘funny thinking’—irrational beliefs that lead to emotional disturbance and unhappiness. He discusses how our thoughts can create stress and affect our spirit, particularly in the context of physical illness and emotional challenges. Armand shares insights from his experiences as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the dangers of seeking external validation. He provides a list of common irrational thoughts and encourages listeners to identify their feelings to better understand their emotional states. This episode aims to help individuals recognize and challenge their funny thinking patterns for a more positive mindset.

Dealing with Narcissism in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of dealing with narcissistic personalities in relationships. Joined by Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist,’ they explore the characteristics of narcissists, including self-absorption, entitlement, and emotional detachment. The conversation delves into the dynamics between narcissists and their partners, offering insights on how to navigate these complex relationships. Wendy emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and provides strategies for setting healthy boundaries while fostering empathy. Listeners are encouraged to recognize the signs of narcissism and learn how to respond effectively.