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Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.

Irrationality and Expectations July 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Dan Ariely

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of irrationality with behavioral economist Dr. Dan Ariely, author of ‘Predictably Irrational.’ They explore how expectations shape our experiences, particularly in the context of placebos and the psychology behind pain relief. Ariely shares personal anecdotes from his time in a burn unit and discusses the surprising effects of price and origin on perceived medication efficacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of human behavior, including the fear of abandonment and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our irrational tendencies.

Abnormality and Normalcy June 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of abnormality and normalcy, particularly in the context of human behavior and societal expectations. He discusses how perceptions of what is ‘normal’ can vary greatly, influenced by cultural norms and individual experiences. The conversation delves into topics such as paraphilias, maladaptivity, and the pressures of conforming to societal standards. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own definitions of normalcy and the impact of secrets and personal struggles on their sense of self. The episode invites callers to share their thoughts and experiences, fostering a dialogue about the complexities of human behavior.

Self-Esteem: A Double-Edged Sword May 30, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the complex nature of self-esteem, questioning its perceived benefits and the potential pitfalls of inflated self-worth. They discuss the historical context of self-esteem in therapy, the misconceptions surrounding it, and how it can be both a source of strength and a mask for deeper issues like narcissism. The conversation delves into the impact of self-esteem on mental and physical health, the role of therapists, and the importance of genuine self-awareness over mere validation. They emphasize the need for a nuanced understanding of self-esteem, advocating for a balanced approach in therapy and personal development.

Memes and Their Impact on Behavior December 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of memes, introduced by Richard Dawkins, as units of cultural information that replicate and influence human behavior. They discuss how memes function similarly to viruses, spreading ideas and emotions among individuals. The hosts delve into the phenomenon of the ‘100th monkey syndrome’ and how behaviors can emerge spontaneously across populations. They also differentiate between hosts and vectors of memes, and introduce the idea of counter-memes that can protect individuals from negative influences. The conversation highlights the importance of awareness in recognizing and managing the memes that shape our thoughts and actions.

Impulses and Their Impact April 12, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of impulse control, particularly in relation to childhood experiences. They explore how rough childhoods can lead to pathological adaptations, affecting emotional and cognitive development. The hosts discuss various forms of impulse control issues, including stealing, self-mutilation, and eating disorders, emphasizing that neglect and trauma can significantly impact one’s ability to manage impulses. Through engaging metaphors and scientific insights, they illustrate the critical connection between early experiences and later behaviors, aiming to foster understanding and empathy for those struggling with impulse control.

Understanding Depression: An Evolutionary Perspective April 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Acchi

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Acchi delve into the complexities of depression, exploring its evolutionary roots and societal perceptions. They discuss how depression is often viewed as a weakness, particularly among men, and how societal norms can exacerbate the issue. The conversation touches on Darwinian medicine, the rank theory, and how depression may have served as a survival mechanism in early humans. They also examine the impact of modern societal structures on mental health, including the role of food and lifestyle choices in exacerbating depressive symptoms. The episode aims to provide a deeper understanding of depression as both a personal and collective experience.

Exploring the Evolutionary Connection Between Flowers and Human Emotions November 9, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati delve into the fascinating relationship between flowers and human emotions. They discuss how flowers, which evolved 140 million years ago, serve as a powerful tool for enhancing human mood and well-being. Through various studies, they reveal that receiving flowers can induce genuine happiness, improve memory, and even alleviate depression. The hosts explore the science behind facial expressions, the contagious nature of smiles, and the evolutionary advantages of beauty in both plants and humans. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of flowers in our lives and their role in fostering positive emotions.

Sibling Rivalry November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of sibling rivalry, a common issue in families that can lead to long-lasting psychological effects. He discusses the roots of competition among siblings, drawing parallels with nature and highlighting how competition for limited resources, such as parental attention and love, can manifest in hostility. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand delves into how sibling rivalry can develop into deeper issues, affecting relationships well into adulthood. He also offers insights on how parents can better manage these dynamics to foster healthier sibling relationships.

Competition and Its Psychological Implications November 2, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atin explore the intriguing nature of competition, its origins, and its psychological effects on individuals. They discuss how competition manifests in various aspects of life, including sibling rivalry and societal structures. The hosts delve into the science behind finger length and its correlation with hormone levels, revealing how these biological factors influence behavior and competitiveness. The conversation also touches on the differences between male and female competition, the roles of testosterone and estrogen, and the implications for social and sexual dynamics. This episode provides valuable insights into understanding competition’s impact on personal and professional relationships.