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Understanding Violence June 18, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amy, Dr. Carol Dweck, Giullian Gioiello, Jaime, John Pelletieri, Rinaldo, Terry Jones

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of violence, discussing its definitions, causes, and consequences. He highlights the alarming statistics surrounding violence, including the prevalence of suicide and child maltreatment. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand delves into personal experiences with violence, the struggle for understanding, and the importance of communication in relationships. The episode emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of violence in various forms, including self-directed, collective, and interpersonal violence, and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the impact of violence in their lives.

Violence and Its Roots June 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of violence, examining its origins and manifestations in both personal and societal contexts. He discusses the impact of childhood experiences, the influence of video games, and the biochemical factors that contribute to violent behavior. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal stories of witnessing violence and the lasting effects it has on individuals. The episode aims to foster understanding and reflection on the nature of violence, encouraging listeners to confront their own feelings and experiences related to aggression.

Leave a Positive Life April 23, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of leading a positive life and the psychological implications of our behaviors under pressure. He discusses the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse, particularly in familial relationships, and how these dynamics shape our identities. Through listener calls, Armand addresses personal struggles with parental relationships, emotional turmoil, and the quest for self-validation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s internal self and the consequences of unresolved emotional baggage. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and seek healthier connections.

Managing Your Temper April 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of temper and anger management with guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the origins of temper, its impact on personal relationships, and the importance of expressing emotions in a healthy way. The conversation touches on childhood experiences, the cultural aspects of anger, and strategies for coping with explosive emotions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with temper and consider how to manage it constructively. The episode also includes listener call-ins sharing personal stories and insights.

Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

Understanding Personality Types and Human Experience October 23, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Erin Oberlander, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human personality types, focusing on the continuum from narcissism to psychopathy. He explores how these traits manifest in individuals, particularly in the context of therapy and personal relationships. With insights from guests Dr. Erin Oberlander and Lisa Arnone, the conversation delves into the importance of understanding emotional states and the dynamics of transference in therapy. The episode emphasizes the necessity of compassion and connection in mental health practices, while also addressing the challenges faced by both professionals and clients in navigating these intricate personality traits.

Hypnosis and Suggestibility July 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the intricacies of suggestibility and hypnosis, emphasizing the importance of a client’s willingness to accept suggestions for effective therapy. He shares various techniques he employs in psychotherapy, including unique methods to gauge emotional responses and identify potential organic disorders. Armand also explores the dynamics of client-therapist relationships, the significance of self-awareness, and the impact of emotional expression on mental health. Through engaging dialogues, he illustrates how therapists can guide clients to better understand their feelings and thoughts, ultimately fostering personal growth and healing.

Defense Mechanisms and Personal Growth January 18, 2012

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla explore the various defense mechanisms people use to cope with anxiety and stress. They discuss how these psychological tools can protect us from emotional pain but can also lead to unhealthy habits if relied upon too heavily. The conversation delves into specific mechanisms such as denial, repression, and dissociation, illustrating their impact on personal relationships and self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own defense strategies and consider healthier alternatives for emotional well-being.

Alter Selves and Psychological Functioning March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of alter selves and their impact on psychological functioning, particularly in relation to addiction and behavior disorders. He discusses how individuals often dissociate from their true selves in response to stress, trauma, or emotional challenges, creating alternate personalities that manage these experiences. Through anecdotes and insights from his extensive experience in psychotherapy, DeMille encourages listeners to recognize and befriend these alter personalities rather than criticize them. This approach may lead to better self-understanding and healing.

Understanding Anger and Its Chemistry July 15, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of anger, exploring its biochemical roots and psychological implications. Joined by Stephanie D’Ambra, they delve into how anger can serve as a reaction to stressors and its relationship with hormones like cortisol and testosterone. The conversation highlights how anger can sometimes mask deeper feelings of vulnerability and sadness, and how understanding these emotions can lead to healthier expressions of anger. They also touch on the impact of external and internal stressors on our emotional responses and the importance of recognizing and addressing these feelings.