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Covert Brutality and Passive-Aggressive Behavior March 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of covert brutality, particularly focusing on passive-aggressive behavior. He explains how this subtle form of abuse can manifest in relationships, often disguised as normal or caring actions. Armand highlights the characteristics of passive-aggressive individuals, including procrastination, forgetfulness, and ambiguity, and how these behaviors can lead to confusion and frustration in interpersonal dynamics. He encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and consider the emotional impact they have on both the passive-aggressive person and those around them.

Abandonment Rage February 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotions surrounding love and abandonment, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of abandonment rage. He discusses how feelings of abandonment can lead to intense emotional reactions, including depression and rage, and explores the psychological implications of these feelings. The conversation includes insights on the chemistry of love, the impact of loss, and the ways individuals cope with the end of relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss, and how these emotions manifest in their lives.

New Year Reflections January 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes the new year with reflections on personal change and growth. He discusses the significance of New Year’s resolutions and the importance of intention in making meaningful changes in one’s personality. Armand encourages listeners to consider what aspects of themselves they would like to improve, whether it’s being less angry, more organized, or more generous. He emphasizes that every change comes with a corresponding loss and challenges listeners to confront their fears and dependencies. Through anecdotes and insights, he inspires a journey of self-discovery and transformation as the year begins.

Finding Balance in Relationships April 1, 2008

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the delicate balance between individuality (‘me’) and togetherness (‘we’) in relationships. He discusses the importance of maintaining one’s identity while fostering a connection with a partner. Through various examples and insights, he highlights how losing oneself in a relationship can lead to feelings of desperation and isolation. The conversation emphasizes the need for autonomy within partnerships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the dynamics of their relationships. Armand invites callers to share their thoughts and challenges regarding this balance.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Valentine’s Day Insights on Love and Containment February 14, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the complexities of love, attachment, and the psychological need for containment in relationships. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our adult relationships and the importance of balance between closeness and independence. The conversation delves into the biochemical aspects of love, particularly the role of phenylethylamine (PEA) in fostering emotional connections. The hosts emphasize that separation can rejuvenate relationships, allowing partners to grow individually before reuniting. This Valentine’s Day, they encourage listeners to reflect on their own needs for containment and growth within their romantic connections.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

Asking for Help Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of asking for help and the psychological barriers that often prevent individuals from reaching out. He discusses the fears of surrender, shame, and separation that contribute to the reluctance to seek assistance. Drawing on insights from psychology, particularly Carl Jung’s archetypes, Armand delves into the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of vulnerability and dependency. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he highlights the importance of recognizing our needs and the transformative power of compassion, both for ourselves and others.

Food as a Drug Undated

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between food and emotions. He discusses how food can serve as a comfort during difficult times, drawing on personal anecdotes and scientific research. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of eating, including how stress and emotional states can lead to unhealthy eating habits. Armand highlights the importance of understanding one’s own food triggers and the impact of various foods on mood and behavior. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own eating habits and the emotional connections they have with food.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.