Keyword: alcohol dependency

Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

Exploring Feelings and Communication February 4, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael G. Haskins

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the spectrum of human emotions, focusing on five basic feelings: sad, mad, glad, bad, and scared. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these emotions and their impact on communication, particularly in relationships. The conversation includes insights from guests about how different environments and situations can influence emotional responses, such as laughter in uncomfortable situations. The episode also touches on the complexities of positive and negative feelings, exploring how they manifest in everyday life and interactions.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 8, 2013

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors, linking them to the concept of the ‘refugee syndrome.’ He discusses how feelings of isolation and disconnection can lead individuals to seek artificial dependencies through various forms of addiction, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists, highlighting the psychological roots of addiction and offering hope for those struggling with these issues. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own dependencies and consider the underlying emotional needs that drive them.

Addictions, Compulsions, and Self-Destructive Behaviors August 7, 2013

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of addictions, compulsions, and self-destructive behaviors. He discusses how feelings of loneliness and disconnection can lead individuals to seek solace in various forms of dependency, including substance abuse and compulsive behaviors. The episode features insights from various specialists and examines the psychological roots of addiction, including the ‘refugee syndrome’ and the impact of societal expectations on men’s relationships with addiction. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own behaviors and consider the underlying emotional needs that may drive them.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Psychology for Therapists: Part Seven July 31, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone continue their series on psychology tailored for therapists. They delve into the complexities of self-inquiry, emphasizing the importance of asking the right questions about one’s feelings and behaviors. Armand discusses how individuals often struggle with understanding their emotions and the dynamics of therapy. He highlights the significance of recognizing dependency, stages of growth, and the resistance to change that many face. The episode encourages listeners to explore deeper questions about themselves, moving beyond surface-level inquiries to uncover underlying motivations and feelings.

Toxic Relationships July 24, 2012

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of toxic relationships, exploring how they can affect mental and emotional well-being. He shares insights on identifying toxic behaviors, such as manipulation, verbal abuse, and emotional isolation, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own feelings and boundaries. The conversation also touches on the impact of upbringing on relationship dynamics and the necessity of seeking objective perspectives. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationships and consider whether they are nurturing or harmful, as well as the potential for healing and growth.

Fundraising Drive July 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Audrey Clark, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Lisa Arnone and Audrey Clark, explores the complexities of love and the challenges of allowing oneself to be loved. They discuss the importance of self-acceptance and the difficulties of navigating relationships, particularly when it comes to dependency and the fear of vulnerability. Through personal anecdotes and listener letters, the conversation delves into the themes of lovability, emotional struggles, and the societal pressures surrounding relationships. The episode emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding in fostering healthy connections with others.

Graduate Class in Positive Psychology June 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of human behavior, particularly focusing on dependency and independence in relationships. They discuss the challenges faced by individuals with dependent personality traits, exploring how these traits manifest in therapy and everyday life. Through engaging dialogue, they emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and others without judgment, highlighting the significance of compassion and connection in fostering personal growth. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships, the role of therapists, and the journey towards self-discovery and empowerment.

Worrying: Understanding the Roots and Effects April 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of worrying, its origins, and its impact on our lives. He discusses how worrying can stem from deep-seated fears of abandonment and rejection, often rooted in childhood experiences. DeMille highlights the maladaptive schemas that contribute to a person’s tendency to worry and the psychological traps that can ensnare individuals. He emphasizes that while concern can be healthy, excessive worry is unproductive and can hinder problem-solving abilities. The episode encourages listeners to understand their worries and find healthier ways to cope.