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Relationships and Evolutionary Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of modern relationships and how they have evolved over time. He discusses the impact of societal changes, chemical influences, and the evolution of human behavior on romance and courtship. Delving into evolutionary psychology, he examines how the dynamics of attraction and bonding have shifted, particularly in the context of modern challenges like hyperstimulation and the effects of technology. The conversation also touches on the neurochemistry of love and the various factors that contribute to romantic connections, highlighting the intricate interplay between biology and emotional experiences.

10 Things to Do When Life Falls Apart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Daphne Rose Kingma

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with author Daphne Rose Kingma about her book, ‘The 10 Things to Do When Life Falls Apart.’ They discuss the challenges of navigating crises, the importance of allowing oneself to grieve, and the transformative power of embracing pain. Kingma emphasizes the significance of recognizing one’s personal strengths and the necessity of letting go to foster growth. The conversation highlights how difficult experiences can lead to deeper connections with oneself and others, ultimately guiding individuals toward love and resilience in the face of adversity.

Consistency in Parenting and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of consistency in parenting and personal relationships. He discusses a study by Israeli researchers that reveals how consistent parenting can lead to effective behavior in children, but may also foster resentment. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal experiences, examining how past relationships with parents can influence adult romantic choices. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating emotional connections, the impact of inconsistency, and the importance of understanding one’s own needs in relationships.

Puppet of Mind Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele shares his thoughts on love and pain, inspired by a wedding ceremony he was invited to officiate. He reflects on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing that love often coexists with pain, and that both are essential to personal growth and connection. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, he explores how love can create a vortex that attracts negativity, and how understanding this dynamic can lead to deeper relationships. The episode also touches on the importance of compassion and the transformative power of touch in human connections.

Radical Ideas in Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships and the psychological constructs that influence how we perceive love and value. He discusses the idea that people often present a façade to gain affection and acceptance, questioning the authenticity of these interactions. Drawing on historical psychological theories and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to understand what we offer to others in relationships. The conversation touches on the commodification of emotional connections and the significance of being valued for our true selves.

Understanding Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of relationships, particularly the negative behaviors that often arise between partners. He discusses how familiarity can breed contempt and why couples may act irrationally with each other, despite being reasonable individuals in other contexts. Drawing on research and personal anecdotes, Armand emphasizes the importance of constructive communication and understanding in relationships. He also highlights the need for couples to recognize their patterns of interaction and the impact of unresolved issues from the past. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider how to foster healthier dynamics.

Latest in Research on Relationships and ADHD Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships affected by ADHD and the impact of serotonin on emotional well-being. He explores the challenges faced by partners of individuals with attention deficit disorders, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. The conversation also delves into the biological factors influencing commitment and infidelity, highlighting recent research on genetic predispositions. Dimele encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships, the dynamics of love, and the significance of shared experiences in fostering connection and growth.

Making Everyone Happy Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Casey, Giullian Gioiello, Joy, Linda Vanella, Marguerite, Naina Ervin, Richard, Roberta Maria Acchi, Seema, Tarun

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of trying to make others happy, especially during the holiday season. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they explore the emotional toll it takes on individuals who feel responsible for the happiness of those around them. The conversation touches on personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges faced when one’s efforts to please others go unrecognized. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the balance between self-care and the desire to make others happy.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.